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1steady1

45 / M / straight / Single

Charlotte, North Carolina

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
6' 3" (1.90m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Arabic (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay)

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I am mature, focused, and relaxed.

My Self-Summary

[Just a regular fella settled and focused on doing something positive and live life to the fullest. I am not a complicated decision maker... nor do I complicate the path of my friends.]
Now in Arabic
I am a fluent speaker but not literate I can read the language fairly well.
Now in Spanish
Aqui te incuentra un caballero que cuso por varios caminos y culturas por el mundo entero. Tranquilo maduro hecho y derecho. Prefiero mostrar mis caracter no detayarlo en escrito.
Now in Portuguese
Melhor fala con migo.. ate mais.

What I’m doing with my life

I’m really good at

[getting it done.]

The first things people usually notice about me

My smile and youthful demeanor.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

[Being from Louisiana, yeah i can cook.. you aint neva had it like this shea!!]

Ill wach any movie and enjoy it but will forget it in a month.

I LUUUV Girsham novels.

The 80's were good to me some of the 70's too. I like and listen to RR, Jazz, Latino, Arabic classics and Gaucho Portuguese.

The six things I could never do without

Good company
Good food
Good manners
Good sense
Good communication

I spend a lot of time thinking about

[Restoring the republic for my Kids sake.
Making the most of my remaining youth
What I can do to improve the lives of those I love.]

On a typical Friday night I am

Cooking.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Im a verified romantic

You should message me if

Seek:

uncomplicated friendship
committed partner
dependable adult
humorous kid at heart
mature man
critical thinker
talented craft man
hard core business spirit
driven to improve
care about our constitutional foundations
are able to take time for you only
are able to share time with me
subscribe to old fashioned gentleman's protocol ( I pay you smile )
like lots of hugs
like to travel