ME: Passionate, quirky, creative, honest, witty, straight shooting, single Momma... who loves art, culture, organic gardening, earthships and sustainable housing, art festivals, documentaries, Powells, Beaterville, McMinnemins, ethnic food, farmers mkts, poetry slams, road trips, IKEA, bike riding and MOST of all - spending time with my wee ladies. I may not be as thin or as beautiful as I was in my 20's... I've lived a little, learned a thing or two, been humbled by tragedy, and come to feel comfortable in my own skin. Scars, be them inside or out, give a person character, right? I'm vegetarian 99.9% of the time but not looking to convert anyone! I go to church most Sundays... Hell yeah, Christians can be cool! We're not all stuffy straight lacers ya know! I have yet to beat anyone over the head with the good book, and I promise not to start with you but, it would be great to have someone to walk in faith with me once in a while.

I dont play or watch any sports. (Thats what your guy friends are for.) Also - due to a previous leg injury (pins, plates, and other hardware), you wont find me jumping out of any perfectly good airplanes - I prefer walking, yoga, bicycling, hula hooping. If hard bodied gym junkies are your "thang"- I'm not your girl. I come with curves!

PROFESSIONALLY: I'm an Ordained Wedding Officiant, and Fiber Artist/crochet designer (aka a "hooker"). The latter lets me make lots of wild, colorful hats and garments, but you wont find me on any street corners. Well, okay - you MIGHT... but it would be at First or Last Thursday peddling my art and wearables NOT my bod!

art, making stuff, helping people tie the knot.

eyes, cheekbones and hair.

no rap... no heavy metal... no soap opera's... no sports... no meat.... no fish.... pretty much everything else I'm good with.

my ladybirds
my faith
dental floss
my camera
YARN!
internet

So many of you guys on here want a "drama free" woman? But here's the thing fella's... those of us who have situations of drama didnt ask for the drama, and 9/10 a former man in our lives to blame for it. So, if you want a "drama free" gal maybe you ought to step up, be a man and help the lady take out the "trash"! (know what I mean?) THIS IS YOUR OPPORTUNITY. BE THE HERO.

at home with my ladybirds

I've only been asked out once in real life, in the past 20 yrs... all the rest were via online. Whats up with that?

you have dreams of building an earthship that you want to make a reality. If you are a rugged manly man or artsy/creative hipster ... fella's who looks tough on the outside, willing to kick ass and protect me if necessary... but sweet and tender on the inside. Full lips, nice teeth and man of Faith make me swoon every time! You can be real. You can be imperfect. (I certainly am.)

DONT BOTHER, IF YOU ARE: A liar, cheater, drugs user, Taurus (although I usually find them attractive, we are never compatible) have poor oral hygiene, dress like a grandpa, have grim reaper or cartoon tattoo's, a mugshot, named "Mark". Sorry, I realize if thats your name, you didnt pick it, and its totally NOT your fault. Its just that I'd prefer the new man in my life not have the same name as the one who is the reason for my PTSD.

GOT CAPE?: We could stand to have a Hero in our life. If you've got a cape in your closet, dust it off and bring it! LOL