I am an ex massage therapist (market to crowded) and now I am an Optometry Technician. I am a musician and have studied martial arts most of my life although I must admit I am a little out of shape now lol.

I AM HERE TO MEET YOU! whether we end up dating or friends I promise you will get the respect you deserve. I hate when people say "you have to earn respect" . Respect is a gift and the ONLY way to get it is to give it!

I define maturity as "when you are a child, knowing when to act like an adult, and as an adult. knowing when to act like a child" You have got to cut loose from time to time.

I am a romantic (will bring roses just to see you smile or to humble the roses and show them the true meaning of beauty)
I am kinda shy. I have a very broad sense of humor. I believe in one race HUMAN! we just come from different places and look different in a really insignificant realm. While disrespecting anyone who is different from you, just remember, you are outnumbered 7 billion to one.

I feel that love is never a sin, I am straight but to tell someone they are going to hell for loving someone is a sad statement in itself. Here is an example of my sense of humor because as I am writing this, the voice in the back of my head is saying "God did say be Fruitful and multiply." Just shake your head and smile.

I believe people make the "reason for being" a lot more difficult than it needs to be. We are here to help one another, period. If everyone did this, a lot more would be accomplished and we would have a lot more time for fun.

Although I have no children of my own, I have nothing but respect for single parents and do not understand parents that will not help with their child's needs. Just because the two of you are not getting along you still need to TAKE CARE OF THE KIDS!

I am very open minded about most things.

I live by three basic rules.

Judge not lest ye be judged.

Let ye without sin cast the first stone.

and to me the most important.

That you do unto the least of my brethren you do unto me.
So I try and watch my step.

Looking forward to meeting you. I reiterate, I promise one thing you will always get from me no matter how things work out and that is RESPECT! So drop me a post and let the smiles grow.

working too much loving way to little!

I am not good at answering this question lol. I am a good listener. I am good at being a friend.
I will let you tell me if there is anything else as you get to know me. lol I will also let you know everything I appreciate about you :)

I am not really sure it has been a long time since I first met me.
I would say my sense of humor. It is a little different but I will make you laugh.

Movies Any that let me snuggle up to the woman I am with.

Music anything from 1967-1984 lol not much of a country fan. But blues rock jazz fusion funk is all good.

Books lol I am lysdexic so I don't read a lot of novels. I do read text books. I can follow the logic better without having to read something 10 times.

Shows see movies ;)

1) Guitar picks I think they should be currency! and sometimes I use currency as picks :)
2) This computer, it keeps me entertained Sad i know lol
3) The thought of meeting the right lady. without that single thought I would be condemned to loneliness and that thought alone brings hope!
4) Patience, it kinda balances out the last answer ;)
5) My guitar lol see number 1
6) My friends. They actually score a lot higher on the list but if I tell them they get a big head.

what to say on an Online dating site that will get your attention and a response! Actually there are many things but it all depends on the moment.

sittin at home wishin I had the energy to go out LOL. I enjoy many things but your company would make it better!

LOL Admit to who? One on one I have no secrets, ask and I will answer honestly. Just broadcasting things can be misunderstood, so ask away :)

because you should lol there is no IF