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35 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 23–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:43am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Fun, intelligent, hardworking guy trying every day to make myself better and smile as often as possible. Busy at work and looking for someone who wants to have some fun in NYC going to see some music, new restaurants, or even just going for a walk which might be my favorite thing to do in the city. I have lived here most of my life and still feel like there is still so much to do and try in the city. I enjoy going places I have never been, trying new food or wine, finding a new author, or discovering a new band. I also enjoy meeting new people. Though I am shy at first, I become very comfortable fast once the ice has broken.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working hard to build a career. Work takes up a lot of my time but I always make time for fun! It would be great to meet someone who cold make my down time a lot more enjoyable. I would eventually like to travel a lot more, and am in the process of saving up to do so. In the next few years I would like to have a mortgage instead of rent, get a new car, pack my trunk full of shit and go for a long drive. Backpacking Europe for a few months is my short term goal.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My job, having fun, living every day, cooking, random trivia, bong hits. I am also very good at one on one conversation, listening, and making you feel comfortable. I love playing poker so I pride myself on reading people. I am always the last one with clothes on in a game of strip poker!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Since OKC wants us to have a 500 word profile I am going to fill this section up with words. As far as books go, my favorite author is Chuck Palahniuk. I am currently reading his new book 'Damned'. I also like Irvine Welsch, Jack Kerouac, William Burroughs, Aldous Huxley, Herman Hesse (Siddhartha is my favorite book of all time), and love the classics.
As for TV and movies I am hooked on Breaking Bad, Dexter, and really like Top Chef. Not sure if here or really personal things is right for the next statement but Project Runway is a guilty pleasure of mine. TMI?
Music is very important to me. I don't think I would be who I am today if not for surrounding myself with good music and people who appreciate it. I used to be a bit of a hippy, travelled with the Grateful Dead, learned the acoustic guitar and played hippy folk music for my friends. Then found Phish and they changed my life. I have seen them 60 times and will be going to all three AC shows this summer. The people I have met and places I have been would not have been possible without Phish. I can honestly say that the best times of my life were spent travelling from show to show with some of the greatest people on the planet. These experiences helped shape who I am and in a life of pretty crappy decisions, I do not regret the years I spent with Phish and the incredible people who I got the pleasure of crossing paths with.
Lately I really enjoy Feist, the Band of Bees, the Barr Brothers, the Slip, Robert Randolph, Disco Biscuits, and any Dead cover band. I can't believe my profile is still not 500 words.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Pot, Video Games, Great Food and wine, live music, Good company, did I already say pot?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
you, whoever you are. my future, my past, and how I can have as much fun as possible today.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I will try anything once, and usually twice since I like everything. Also, my guilty pleasure on Thursday nights is Project Runway. Do you know any normal straight men willing to admit that?
You should message me if
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You want to have some fun eating, drinking, seeing music or just going for a walk with a nice guy looking to make new friends! I am not really looking to fall in love at the moment though I would not stand in loves way if it did happen. Really just looking for new friends who want to have as much fun as possible. I guess an FWB relationship would be ideal. Sex is fun and should not be so taboo as it seems. Its ok to enjoy it!