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48 • Oakland, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 20–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Yesterday – 9:59pm
- 5′ 6″ (1.68m)
- Body type
- Mostly other
- Other, and laughing about it
- Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from space camp
- Rather not say
- Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
I'm a giver by nature and enjoy painting the future, in the present - creating the life I'm inspired to live, moment by moment.
I'm silly and quirky and don't care so much what people think but also have a deep side that is incredibly strong, brave, and resilient.
Regardless of the time frame, level of commitment, or nature of the relationship, if you let me in I'm very likely to rock your heart and soul... hard. And if part of you wants that but some other part is petrified, I know how to gently coax your heart toward more openness, gradually and with plenty of fun and laughter along the way.
Presence, Appreciation, Integrity, Love, and Joy, as well as a deep knowing of the human condition are the fire that drives me.
Let's connect. This is a ride worth being on.
Yoda would say there is no try.
Give me a moment; I'm working on it.
feeling into what i'm actually feeling
feeling into what others are feeling
Movies: Coen Brothers, Stanley Kubrick, Ridley Scott
Food: anything but fast; mostly Vietnamese (Slanted Door or some hole in the wall), really good Pizza (Delfina, A16), Japanese (Eiji), Italian (Delfina & my mom's home cookin')
woven dental floss (this stuff will change your life; amazing!!!)
That's 7... or 9 depending on how you're counting and I'm clearly not counting.
Online - why the response rate around her is so low.
In between - why there seems to be an inverse relationship between the two.
staying in and watching a movie
snuggling with my peeps in a puppy pile somewhere
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