I am usually funny, always caring, and a little complex.
My Self-Summary
It's always easier to talk about someone else, than talk about
yourself, but: born and raised in Colorado, I enjoy most
outdoor hobbies
(though it's been awhile), but there's still nothing better than
curling up with
a loved one and watching the latest video...
I enjoy
making people laugh... but I
suffer from shyness at times, snd I have both my serious side as
well as a side of untapped love... and even with the benefits of
being single,
I miss loving someone...
And I'm sure this sounds corny but I miss sharing my life with
someone who'll share theirs'...
life is too quiet when
you're single... I guess I'm either romantic or juvenile...
Speaking of relationships, like everyone, I have had my share of
very caring women and my share of slighly psycho tazmanian devils,
but who hasn't... luckily I never married but at the same time
sadly, I have not had children...
having children, or at least
trying to have children is probably one of the more important
things I'm looking for... of course that all revolves around
finding someone who has the same
dreams, hopes and
wishes as myself...
that's probably why i havn't married... my grandparents were
together for over 55 years... that's what marriage should be... the
two of you are
"teammates" through thick and
thin... and even while i get older, i still plan on saying "i do"
once...
What I’m doing with my life
Besides trying to get back in the dating game, I am writing a
screenplay and have and been working on three other stories... At
least I'm attempting to... Steven King I am not... The other major
thing in my life would be the planning, finding the right house,
selling my condo, and if I can do things right, sell the condo for
more than the "Fixer-uper" house, turn around and do the
improvments with the profits, which I then end up with a property
actually worth more than my condo, all without going into debt...
No Mortgage!!!
I’m really good at
Even though I have yet to have my own children, my relationships in
the past where children were involved, has taught me that I know I
would be a great father... Besides that I'm good at many things
including: conversation (listening and talking), I can be very
empathic... (I'm not sure that's a good thing)... I have alot of
musical ability and if I do say so myself, excellent taste in
music... (I have my FCC License for broadcasting and have even been
a DJ at a nightclub...) (Many, many years ago) Definately good at
being a close friend, and even better at being a lover... I believe
in being a "team player"...
The first things people usually notice about me
If I had to guess, i would imagine it's either my smile or my
shoulders, but that's guessing at best... I never know what's going
through a woman's mind...
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I own a small library of say 150 t0 200 books, and i wish i read
more often... Movies i like range from romantic, (Titanic, Last of
the Mohicans, Robin Hood: "Prince of Thieves", to sci-fi like
Rollerball (the original version with James Caan)... And have you
ever heard of the movie "The Point"? I also own 10-15 music dvds...
I enjoy popping in a cd and getting videos with it... Speaking of
music, that counldn't be more diverse... Really, life should have a
soundtrack... but lately i cannot seem to stop listening to "Green
Day", or "The Corrs"...
The six things I could never do without
1: My children (if God would just smite me with little ones)
2: love
3: Seasons, snow...
4: My ipod (life should have a soundtrack)
5: My family and friends (as crazy as the ALL are)
6: My sanity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My mother's health, my death, the VASTNESS of the universe, life in
general, if true love exists, etc... I become overloaded when i try
to imagine the forces involved during the collapse of the Towers...
To literally disintegrate how many thousands and they still cannot
account for all victims... But mostly, I dream about selling my
condo which is in a skyscraper, and buying a slight fixer-uper home
and get back to a backyard for a dog, cat, whatever and a white
picket fence for my special someone... God i miss animals and
grass... Living 300 ft. above the ground can be sterile...
On a typical Friday night I am
There is really not a typical night... Some nights i go to the
casinos to get that adrenaline fix... some nights it's a video,
which really would be more enjoyable if it was being watched with
someone... Some nights it's relaxing on my patio with friends...
(it really has a beautiful view)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
biggest boo-boo (literally)... i was 14 or so and my mom had set me
up with the daughter of a friend who lived in the nieghborhood...
so one afternoon i was sent over to meet her and her mom... she was
pretty, and at that age, well you know... so we all sat down in the
living room to watch a little tv and a little get-to-know-you
talk... well to my surprise she was interested in me too so we
immediately sat together on the couch and i worked up the nerve to
put my arm around her... a few moments pass without any problems
and i kinda gave her a squeeze and rubbed her elbow... at least
that's where i thought my hand was... at first i couldn't
understand why her elbow was so soft, it was if she had no bone in
her elbow... then the horror of realizing that i wasn't sqeezing
her elbow, and i understood why her mom on the other side of the
room had the look as if she was about to pounce and save her
baby... i must say it was a very soft "elbow"... needless to say, i
came up with some excuse for me to leave, and never looked back...
i never saw her again which is good because to this day i still
havn't come up with a good excuse for feeling her up, AND in front
of her mom... it was truely one of the worst private things i've
ever done...
You should message me if
If you enjoy life and laughing... If being with someone and sharing
the experience of life is important... And you want to be part of a
team that hopefully would include children... And if you truely
believe there is a right one for everyone, and that true love
exists, or if you're just bored and could use a friend, you really
should drop me a line...