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36 / F / Straight / Single

New York, New York

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 4:18pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English, French (Okay), German (Okay), Polish (Poorly)

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What I’m doing with my life
Leading and supporting a group of extraordinary people so dedicated to helping struggling students read and do math on grade level that we all end up working way too much.

Squeezing in time to mentor an at-risk kid here in my own city.

Balancing crapola with humor, trying hard to get plenty of fresh air, and, thanks to zipcar, thoroughly enjoying my beloved weekly de-stressing activity – horseback riding.
I’m really good at
Devising skits that could be on SNL, new products/services with actual commercial potential, and social movement marketing campaigns.

Connecting people of diverse backgrounds, skills and interests.

Also, apparently, hiking at low oxygen levels -- just tackled Kilimanjaro & conquered Everest Base Camp a couple years ago.
The first things people usually notice about me
Wicked laughter and/or mischievous grins. I find a way to laugh all day, even at my rather serious workplace.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm easy to please with exotic foods —if I’ve never heard of it, I must try it!—with a special love for Thai, Indian, Japanese, Mexican, Barbeque, Jewish delicacies & pickled vegetables of all sorts.

Oh man, the big music question… I’m probably getting too old to admit this, but I still love house/techno music. (Some funny stories about my run-ins with Moby available to share). I also dig hip hop. And then comes bluegrass/folk. Yup, you read that right. I don’t go to nearly enough live concerts though, something I keep hoping to rectify. Most recent ones include: Of Monsters and Men (before they got big), The Killers (ok, after they got big), Foster the People (before), Sting (obviously after; I’m not *that* old), the Cranberries (25 years after), and U2 (they were my first concert ever at age 16 and will never get old for me.)

Guilty Pleasures (tv shows), in no particular order: Top Chef, Mad Men, Wilfred, SNL (I’m a believer, even when it’s bad), Parks & Recreation, Modern Family, Deadliest Catch, Big Bang Theory, The Voice, The Golden Girl & The Cosby Show re-runs.

Movies…if it’s not too violent, I’ll watch it. Even the occasional horror movie, despite my not liking them and the nightmares they sometimes cause.

And on to fave books…

Twilight and 50 Shades of Gray. JUST KIDDING! I judgmentally look down upon people who read this junk. Blech.

Went through a looong 18th century Russian lit phase. That’s over for now, but I still like to re-read the classics.

Everything is Illuminated. Makes me laugh just thinking about it. I generally love all dysfunctional family-based story lines.

Also, some timely reads --

Class Warfare: Inside the Fight to Fix America's Schools. Riveting. And horrifying if you're thinking of having kids someday. My god, our school system is effed up.

Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America. Easy to critique the author's methods, but for the depth of compassion it evokes for hard-working minimum wagers, I wish it were required reading for every 6-figure+ earner.
The six things I could never do without
The Economist -- gotta keep up with the world
DVR -- love the couch, just not being tied to it
Valid passport & suitcase permanently packed with the basics -- ready to leave! Where we goin'?
Immersion blender -- experimenting with soups is fun
The sound of waves -- in real life, not on a machine
Cuddling -- :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can do more for society. Realistically, I'm a busy gal. But I feel like crap when I'm not making time for others.

Where to find the perfect fixer-upper weekend home/investment property. I love a good project.

How amazing it’s been to experience 50+ countries working/volunteering/studying/exploring as a single woman, but how experiencing the rest of the world with a partner/family would be even more wonderful.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out to dinner with friends/loved ones, or lounging on the couch with my feet up. Weeks tend to be pretty tense. Friday nights are great for chillin'.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think the suburbs are yucky. Just the thought of living there makes me shudder.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 29–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Lots of people other than your mom can’t believe someone like you is single.

You enjoy exercising but managed to fill your profile space mentioning all the other more interesting things you do in your life.

You appreciate honesty, act with integrity, and have had enough with games.