More significantly, being a nerd/dork/geek (nordeek) means that I immerse myself in the things that I love. Photography, my family, my friends, the outdoors, writing, traveling, etc. I try not to take half-measures; if I enjoy something, I go in full tilt. I'd like to be with someone who shares that perspective, even if the things she loves are different from the things that I love.
Hopefully, that kind of woman isn't hard to find, because, as some wise person once said (I forget who; I think John Green paraphrased it), "Everyone's a nerd about something."