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34 / F / Straight / Single

Hayward, California

Her Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm easy going, I usually get along with everyone. I like to take my time to get to know people.

I like to make my friends laugh. I will do goofy things when I'm bored if it makes people laugh, but only in the right situation. I have a good sense of humor, I can appreciate a good joke and not get offended easily. I am a very serious person though. I have always been the responsible one in my family so sometimes its hard for me to relax around people I don't know well.

Life has changed a lot over the past few years and I have been concentrating on taking better care of myself. For the past few months I've been concentrating on being healthy. I work out at least 5 days a week. I'm not a new years resolution person, I just make goals for each year and I started in November of last year. I can already see the results :) I'm not trying to be super skinny, just healthy and I feel better already. I can feel muscles in my biceps and my calves its awesome. I dont look muscular but I can feel it.

I love my job. I don't spend all my free time at work but I usually work more than 40 hrs in a week. I try to have balance.

I like to host game night, most of my friends are married so they aren't into going out, but we do game night about once a month at my house and its a lot of fun. We usually end the night watching funny videos on the internet, haha.

I love to travel. I traveled a lot around the US as a kid. As an adult I haven't had as many opportunities to travel, my parents don't pay for it now, haha, but when i do I try to make the best of it. in 2011 I drove from Connecticut to California by myself. It would have been more fun with someone but it was an amazing opportunity I couldn't pass up. I got to see many states that I've never been to and probably wont go to again. I know what places I want to go to again, There is so much out there I still want to see.

My friends say I'm sweet, I don't think I am, I'm just being me.

So what I’m looking for:

I would like to meet someone who can make me laugh. Someone who is caring and thoughtful, who likes to be outside, maybe a hike or walking around a park. I really like to get fresh air and get exercise at the same time.

I do like to stay in and watch TV but I prefer to do something more active. Cuddling and watching a movie is romantic and I am very romantic so once and a while that is great.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a graphic designer, I work for a local printing company. I love what I do, it's very stressful though, I have tight deadlines every day and the customers can sometimes be annoying, but I get to make something new every day and see it in the world. I recently learned how to use a new program and it allowed me to offer a new product on one of our websites, that was very exciting. I can't wait to create templates for it when I have spare time at work.

My job is very close to my house, I am thankful that I don't have a long commute. I hate to be siting in traffic, it's insane to waste so much time.
I’m really good at
I'm good at making things better. I learn how things work and then improve on them. I kick ass at my job :), It's not my whole life but I do feel a sense of accomplishment almost every day at work. I'm also quite athletic. I played softball for 20 years among other sports.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've gotten two responses to this, my eyes or my smile. I smile a lot when I'm out and about and I have green eyes and naturally long eyelashes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm not a regular reader, I'm dyslexic and reading is always labored for me. I do enjoy reading sometimes but most of the time when I have to read, it's a text book and then I get bored, ha! I do keep up with news on the internet and if i see something interesting on the internet I'll read short articles. I do love to learn though and it's not always through books.

As far as movies I like comedies. I have enough drama with my family, I don't really like to watch the movies where people are fighting and stuff, I'd rather escape and laugh for an hour.

Music, I love music in Spanish. I can dance to a lot of the different genres of it. I've been taking Salsa classes for a few months now. Its a lot of fun and although I already knew how to dance, I'm learning a lot of new moves :)

Food, most food, I just can't eat spicy food. I have a sweet tooth, I love chocolate, but I've been trying to eat healthier so most of the time I avoid sweets.
The six things I could never do without
sunny days
my computer/internet
family / friends (some are like family)
music (helps me be creative)
my right to vote
freedom
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future. I like to plan things and work towards goals.
I also think about work a lot too, I'll see something that inspires me and Ill make a note of it, or take a pic with my camera so I can use it later at work.
On a typical Friday night I am
After work I go to the gym for an hour then home to rest. I usually feel tired and want to rest up for Saturday night!
Once in a while I go to happy hour with my boss and some people from his BNI group. I'd rather do something fun but since most of my friends are married, i just go home after working out and rest up for Saturday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can't think of anything that I wouldn't normally tell people.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 27–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You are interested in a serious relationship. I want to share my life with someone, I don't expect to be a couple after 1 date, but I don't have time to date guys who just want to play around. I DO NOT want to be your "friend with benefits", it only benefits you. If we meet and things aren't right that's ok, just don't lead me on please.
Also if I give you my number please call me, I'm not 15 I'm not going to have a text conversation with you. I want to hear your voice especially if you want to meet me in person.