I DON'T live at the above location. I have been there though.
Hmm... this was an interesting read on some 'behind the scenes' at OkCupid... They're watching you!
Thank you for your interest, but please don't waste your time on my profile. I am not looking/dating right now. I know you see me online sometimes, but it is because I am going through my older messages for ideas. I write a blog with a lot of topics about online dating so I come here to remind myself what I want to write about (I've saved a lot of old messages to kick start my memory). If you still want to read my profile below and write me for whatever reason, that's fine, but I don't want anyone to be discouraged if I don't reply....
Who knows... maybe I'll be back here searching for someone in the future, but for right now, it's not happening.
Good luck finding the one you are looking for!
This is my PROFILE from before...
[meaning it does not apply to now]:
Sorry my profile is soooo long and all over the place... the result of spur of the moment adding...
*I don't live where my status is set... (do NOT live)...Just taking a break from messages... I still read but just get out of the mood of wanting to reply... or sometimes not in a situation that makes it worth replying... but I do read messages I receive regardless... Too many guys out there freak out and consider it a personal attack when u dont reply... I might just be already talking to someone else... Please don't let non-response from a girl be so personal- there are many reasons for it...
I'm pretty open to meeting new people, and I actually prefer getting together for a drink or coffee than mailing back and forth or chatting online.
I don't make any promises though. I don't click romantically with many people at all, but I usually enjoy most people's company, regardless of age, gender, sexual orientation, or race. So, I wouldn't want anyone to anticipate more than friendship if we do chat or meet.
I put on my profile youngest guys over 30, cuz around 28-29 guys appear to start to go a little bonkers about getting older and desperate to experience as many women as they can before its too late. I'm so over that. I like men who aren't afraid to grow up- we're better off not knowing men until they have grown up. And the only thing a man ever misses out on is a relationship he puts his whole heart into, when he's man enough to appreciate what he's got, because all he'll ever have is equal to what he gives. (Yes, ur gonna get older, fatter, balder, less sexually capable, and in general be a whole lot less of what you have to offer women physically, so its prolly better to use these last good years left to find a good one who will love you anyway... If you wait too long or don't hold onto a good one when you finally find her- you might end up screwed with the slim pickings of the bottom of the barrel... ouch!!)