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26 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 21
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Trying to quit
Other, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hello :-) Re-writing this as its been half a year already... Well, I am a father, son, brother, ex/babies' daddy, friend, artist/maker/musician, cultivator, optimist, pacifist, femenist, humanist;

I do not live in Seattle... I live in Central WA about 1.5 hrs out of Seattle. I am looking for no expectation, fun, nice folks to meet and hang with when I come over to Seattle...
What I’m doing with my life
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Finishing my BFA this year at CWU (I make furniture/sculpture out of wood and metal and sound, and utilitarian pots) , raising my children, growing food, making music (mainly bass, but I love all strings, keys, and percussion), making art
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking with a bare pantry, Scrabble, holding infants, putting myself in others' shoes, hoarding electronics for potential projects
The first things people usually notice about me
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The beret in my hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Any and all types of music, go through periods of obsessing over artists/albums, right now it's the Miseducation of Lauryn Hill and tune-yards (yes, I just now got in-depthly exposed to those artists :-P)

bell hooks, Robbins, Hesse, Mumia Abu-Jamal, Saul Williams

I don't take the time to watch new movies because I'm easily frustrated with mediocre movies (unless the movie is an excuse to cuddle, in that case anything works). Miyazaki films (Mononoke is my fav), anything my sister recommends...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My kids
2) Electricity (at least for 1 hour a day to bump some tunes)
3) Compassion
4) Intimacy
5) My immediate and extended (friend) family
6) Growth
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends, in with friends, or working on coursework
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm bisexual, but hetero-amorous (if you Google "hetero-amorous", Dan Savage's article is one of the only things that pops up, that's where I got it from). Bisexuality doesn't seem to be a big turn on for women (or at least it leads to assumptions about how my sexualiy functions), so I switched back to hetero... If you are mainly interested in a sexual relationship be upfront about what you want and how you best interact sexually, I will be too.
You should message me if
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You want to meet accompany me on an adventure of any sort

You arent racist, sexist, homophobic, or mean :)

You think you can beat me at Scrabble...