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59 • Cary, NC • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 40–60
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Today – 7:43pm
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Science / Engineering
- Strictly monogamous
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), German (Poorly)
I like to balance an intellectual and analytical approach with an awareness of human experience and feelings. My sense of humor is sometimes very dry and ironic, and sometimes silly - I like everything from Aristophanes to Airplane, Bocaccio to Beckett, Chaucer to Celine, (how many letters do I get here?)
My boys are 21 & 22; they spend most of their time with me. The youngest drew his first political cartoon when he was 9: George W. Bush (in tie and cowboy hat) getting a hot foot from a fire-breathing Pokemon. It's still on our fridge. We are close & affectionate, and do lots of things together. We have a nature trail on the hill behind our house, and some small pets.
Once my son asked me if I believe in life after death. I told him, "Of course. There is obviously life after death. Just look at how many other people will still be alive after one of us is dead!" For each of us, I believe the greatest challenge is to live with the reality that none of us is more valuable than any other. This is just as much a challenge in intimate, family relations as in public or business life.
For the last few years I've been working away from home on consulting projects, but now I'm home to stay again!
Technically I'm an atheist. But I grew up as a Lutheran and I still appreciate the tradition of thinking for oneself against orthodoxy. I've found I have more in common with people whose outlook has been formed by traditional religion, than with those who are shaped by contemporary psychotherapy.
All ideas are human products, and none of us need be a pure consumer of them.
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