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39 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Aug 2
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
My self-summary
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Bipedal primate with opposable thumbs and capacity for abstract thought. Originally from what is now Africa, but call San Francisco home. Enjoy speech communication, complex social structures, working with tools, food, podcasts and travel.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work as a creative director. In my spare time, I carouse with friends, write, travel, go to concerts, attempt to cook, and pursue my childhood dream of winning an intramural softball league title.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Recommending things, pep-talks, overly complicated HORSE shots, making breakfast sandwiches, calming babies, over-tipping, defusing tense situations with a timely quip, arguing with conspiracy theorists, telling time without a watch, remembering obscure ad jingles from the 90s.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Height. Especially if I'm wearing heels.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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TV: Broad City, Peaky Blinders, The Wrong Mans, High Maintenance, The Jinx, American Experience, Mike Tyson's Mysteries, and -- sadly -- Naked & Afraid.

Recent books: City of Thieves, Absurdistan, Season of the Witch (If you haven't read it, it's a nonfiction account of SF during the 60s-80s and it's pretty amazing.)

Currently listening to Sylvan Esso, Tiny Victories, Spoon, Lucius, Zola Jesus, Kendrick Lamar, Cathedrals and lots of others.

Movies are big in my life but it's too hard to summarize here.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Contact lenses (If we lived in caveman days I would've been eaten by wolves.)
2. Books
3. Podcasts
4. Coffee
5. Quiet spaces
6. My shakeweight
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why is there something instead of nothing? But I usually don't have an answer, so I switch to what I would say to Terry Gross when she finally interviews me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out on the town or giddily looking forward to a full night's sleep.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ben Affleck makes good movies. Also "Blank Space" by Taylor Swift is currently on my workout mix.
You should message me if
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I suppose if you made it this far, why not?