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35 Escondido, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26-33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 5, 2014
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Might want kids
My self-summary
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I sometimes feel like a vampire and that makes it hard to date in Southern seems everybody loves the sunshine while I prefer to avoid it at all costs. How does one plan a date around that? Guess Im just funny that way. I have not nor will I ever wear a flat brim hat, anything Ed Hardy, sequined jeans, pre-distressed jeans, basketball jerseys, a wife-beater in public, jewelry of any sort, a wool cap that only covers 3/4's of my head, or sandals.
I am a contrary-to-whats-popular kind of guy. I think it stems from being a middle child. I work out as often as I can but I do not care about all. Imagine that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
The last 6 months have been spent re-entering the world of theater. I was cast in two productions of Les Mis and a workshop run of The Wild Party. Performing is something I loved doing when I was younger and it has been wonderful to get in touch with that aspect of my creativity again. It is something that I plan on continuing to persue. Lately, when I am not working, I have been spending my time rock climbing and playing guitar.
More to the point I am trying to find a companion for my life and my lifestyle. Someone better than myself and someone who makes me want to be better than myself. Inspiring, open, enigmatic, driven, admirable...and other adjectives. I have never had much luck in dating or relationships and I am trying not to let it bum me out but it has really taken its toll on me. Fortunately I am stubborn and determined to make it happen.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Saying or doing anything possible to make people laugh. I have no shame and rarely edit myself.
Wishing I was in a classic noir film.
Creating delicious cocktails with seemingly benign/useless or even trivial ingredients
I got mad karaoke skills. Really anything musical I have a knack for it. I learned to play the ukelele in a few hours.
Mocking people mercilessly way past the point of putting my foot in my mouth.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That air of mystery surrounding me....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music makes the world go round. My tastes are all over the place but my not so secret love is jazz/swing standards. Sinatra, Dean Martin, Tony Bennett, Harry Connick Jr, Michael Buble, and artists of that ilk...I think my brain is hard-wired to love a good horn section. Other faves Tom Waits, David Bowie, Elvis Costello and early Muse-before they decided they were the second coming of Queen.
I am the guy who knows everything about movies and TV. I am like a one man IMDB. A good number of my conversations involve quoting movies from American Psycho to Fight Club to Tommy Boy. I studied film and screenwriting in college so it is something I am passionate about.
In my down time at work I have been reading lately but have yet to find anything that really blows my mind. Even the old go-to's like Chuck Palahniuk and Nick Hornsby seem to be letting me down. When I was a kid my favorite book was The Outsiders.
Food let me see....I make my own corned beef. Do I need to say anything else?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Monte Cristo sandwich at Studio Diner
My Chuck Taylors'
My over-active imagination
Cold showers on a hot day
A cheap pair of sunglasses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Dialogue. Characters. Scenes. Funny quips. Why people watch "reality" television. Why I am single. Why nobody uses the term fallderall anymore...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hitting up a brewery even though I don't really like beer, hanging with the gang, enjoying a bite to eat, and some more libations in hopes of forgetting Mon through Thurs happened.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hall and Oates are the greatest band ever.
You should message me if
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If you are not afraid to put aside classic gender rules and initiate a conversation especially if I said something to spark your interest. I have a tendency to say a great deal without saying much at all but I am a talented, thoughtful, honest guy once you wade past all the b.s. and defense mechanisms. I am rough around the edges sure but even if I seem the opposite of who or what you are maybe that is not such a bad thing. I firmly believe in opposites me that seems like a recipe for interesting times.