I would love to meet a man who is confident, strong, yet gentle and tender with a 'youthful spirit' . . . honest, with a sense of humor, intelligent, creative, stable and FUN, who appreciates a woman, who REALLY enjoys being a woman . . . a woman who doesn't have to be busy busy, or constantly entertained. The priority is the 'connection'. And as much as I really look forward to being with a sweetheart/companion/lover/best friend; I also enjoy my own company (hope you enjoy yours as well). Feel that is so healthy - spaces in our togetherness.
I would love to meet someone where it feels like we are already friends, . . . a feeling of ease, along with that magical, illusive element called 'chemistry' ~
I receive much satisfaction from 'helping and inspiring' people while they journey through challenging 'life transitions' ... through my skills/gifts of compassionate and intuitive guidance/ counseling and energy healing.
I enjoy writing with a local Women's Writing Group, as well as a simple emails to keep in touch with friends and family ... nurturing my plants, and even 'weeding' as I love having my hands in the moist soil/dirt; sometimes play with 'paints, pastels ... colored markers, crayons' !! Often making a mess, sometimes an 'abstract piece of art' :)
I am grateful for having been involved in the HAI and the Tantra communities, which has expanded my ability to relate in a deeper and more compassionate way on all levels.
Creating a relaxing and inviting home environment
Organizing and planning events
Being open and flexible
Laughing and smiling
Helping others, listening
Cuddling, Touching, Kissing ...
Emotional and physical intimacy
Being very present ...
Inspiring people ....
I Remember Union, Pride & Prejudice, The Artist's Way, Velveteen Rabbit, Anais Nin's writings, Mary Oliver, anything Rumi or Hafiz ...
Movies: Somethings Gotta Give, Out of Africa (Meryl Streep in anything!), Julia, The Razor's Edge, Wanderlust, Midnight in Paris, It's Complicated, Pride & Prejudice, The Big Lebowski, The Big Chill, Defending Your Life, Pay it Forward, The Shawshank Redemption, Pretty Woman, The Fisher King, Sophie's Choice, The Notebook, The Green Mile, Gandhi, Defending Your Life, The Intern, Brooklyn .... and many more ~~~
TV: The Voice, Downton Abbey, re-runs of Sex and
the City and Seinfeld ... other than than not recalling much else, UNLESS I can find a good movie ...
Music: Depends on the mood I'm in ... Chris Botti, Enya,
Michael Buble, Eric Clapton, Sting, Streisand, VAN Morrison,
Jai Uttal, Spirit Spa, Carlos Nakai, Santana, Fleetwood Mac, CSNY, Krishna Das, Sarah McLachlan, Jennifer Warnes, Adele, Rod Stewart (American Classics), Nora Jones, Sinatra, Tony Bennett. Most all Soft Rock, Kirtan, Deva Premal, some ambient or world music, reggae ... flute & harp...
Food: At home eat pretty simply - Veggies (mostly organic), grains, and some fish, chicken, turkey.
Dining out: Thai, Chinese, Indian, Italian (things I don't usually cook at home)
***Confess to being a romantic, enjoy, candlelight, a fireplace, candles, flowers, beautiful music, dancing (good dancer:), especially slow dancing in the living room, melting kisses - long warm embraces - cuddling, spooning ~~~
Humor, Laughter, Smiles
Nature... love being near 'water elements' of any kind
Human touch, affection, intimacy
Love, loving and being loved. The primary joy of LIFE ~~
Quiet times to enjoy and recharge ~
Relationships/friendships, both short and long term, as well as friends and family, all of whom I am grateful for.
Of course, I could not live without air, shelter, food, etc but feel this question is referring to those things that are 'aside' from the 'essentials' for basic survival.
If you are 'available'
If you live within 300 miles or less ;-)
If you have read above, and feel we might have a connection ....