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65 F Moraga, CA

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Last Online
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5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am a woman of substance, depth, humor, creative, kind, sensual, spirited, a blend of casual elegance and bohemian... and lots of FUN! Still have that childlike spirit very much alive (sometimes like to stir the pot a bit, in a good way:)

I would love to spend a cozy fall and winter, (hopefully much, much longer:) with a warm, strong, yet gentle man with a 'youthful spirit' . . . honest, with a sense of humor, intelligent, creative, stable and FUN, who appreciates a woman, who really enjoys being a woman . . . a woman who doesn't have to be busy busy, or be constantly entertained. I really look forward to meeting and being with a sweetheart/companion/lover/best friend; I also enjoy my own company (hope you enjoy yours as well). Feel that is so healthy - spaces in our togetherness.

I would love to meet someone where it feels like we are already friends, a sense of family . . . a feeling of ease, along with that magical, illusive element called 'chemistry'. Have you ever had that feeling when you first met someone?

Hope you enjoy this poem for it's own sake . . .


Let's Meet In The Fall, To Warm Winters Call OR possibly,

full harvest moon on Monday
the Dow is up
the Tao is down
the moon now waning

“no mind, no matter”
says the Tao –

Wall Street Dow cites -
“Worst crisis since the 30’s
no end in sight, yet . . .”

the moon has ‘no reaction’
on any night . . .

leave's turning amber,
citron, cadmium
color through winding
hills of natures haven

‘they have no reaction’

the heat now waning from
summer’s triple digits
as cool dry breezes
bring waves of coming Fall

‘they have no reaction’

I long to be AS ‘nature’ -
while hearing sounds in background
of Dow diving, chaos of world news
political views clashing
'with many reactions’

where is the Love?
where is the Peace?
I want to share THAT . . .

I long for a sweet, warm Winter
with a gentle, yet strong man
who breathes with me
over steamy
sleepytime tea –

clasped in his open arms
legs entwined with mine
eyes meet warmly
melting mind
out of our hearts

with tender warmth of his hand
soothing my soft skin and wanting curves
. . . waiting to be explored

I want the warmth of a man
I already ‘know’
a man who was birthed
from my family of Soul

I want to feel as though
I have known him before . . .
dear friends and lovers
finally meeting
once more

when will we meet?
where will we meet?

perhaps, in the fall?
to warm
winters call . . .

we unfolding
together warming
cool winter nights
moving our souls
into new years peace

the Tao is up
the Dow is down
as I CALL out to the
waning moon –

bring me a man
who bears both
heaven and earth

union of bliss
of happiness
of mirth

. . . as the Tao-Dow
rises and falls
we will BE THE LOVE
no reaction at all ~
What I’m doing with my life
Being self employed, I have the luxury (most days) of enjoying quiet mornings with a cup of tea, meditation or yoga (currently mostly yoga). It really sets the tone for the day ..

I receive much satisfaction from 'helping and inspiring' people while they journey through challenging 'life transitions' ... through my skills/gifts of compassionate and intuitive guidance/ counseling and energy healing.

I enjoy writing with a local Women's Writing Group, as well as a simple emails to keep in touch with friends and family ... nurturing my plants, and even 'weeding' as I love having my hands in the moist soil/dirt; sometimes play with 'paints, pastels ... colored markers, crayons' !! Usually making a mess, sometimes an 'abstract piece of art' :)

I am grateful for having been involved in both the HAI and the Tantra communities, which has expanded my ability to relate in a deeper and more compassionate way on all levels.
I’m really good at
Being at ease with most people, in most situations
Creating a relaxing and inviting home environment
Organizing and planning events
Being open and flexible
Laughing and smiling
Helping others, listening
Cuddling, Touching, Kissing ...
Emotional and physical intimacy
Being very present ...
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue eyes, my smile ... I smile easily, as I'm usually happy inside and that's how it shows on the outside. Have been told 'You're very easy to be with' ~~
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Stillness Speaks, Mistress of Spices, Eat Pray Love, The Tortilla Curtain, The Thorn Birds, Tao Te Ching, Tantric Quest,
I Remember Union, Pride & Prejudice, The Artist's Way, Velveteen Rabbit, Anais Nin's writings, Mary Oliver, anything Rumi or Hafiz ...

Movies: Somethings Gotta Give, Out of Africa (Meryl Streep in anything!), Julia, The Razor's Edge, Wanderlust, Midnight in Paris, It's Complicated, Pride & Prejudice, The Big Lebowski, The Big Chill, Defending Your Life, Pay it Forward, The Shawshank Redemption, Pretty Woman, The Fisher King, Sophie's Choice, The Notebook, The Green Mile, Gandhi, Defending Your Life .... and many more ~~~

TV: The Voice, Downton Abbey, re-runs of Sex and
the City and Seinfeld ... other than than not recalling much else, UNLESS I can find a good movie ...

Music: Depends on the mood I'm in ... Chris Botti, Enya,
Michael Buble, Eric Clapton, Sting, Streisand, VAN Morrison,
Jai Uttal, Spirit Spa, Carlos Nakai, Santana, Fleetwood Mac, CSNY, Krishna Das, Sarah McLachlan, Jennifer Warnes, Adele, Rod Stewart (American Classics), Nora Jones, Sinatra, Tony Bennett. Most all Soft Rock, Kirtan, Deva Premal, some ambient or world music, reggae ... flute & harp...

Food: At home eat pretty simply - Veggies (mostly organic), grains, and some fish, chicken, turkey.

Dining out: Thai, Chinese, Indian, Italian (things I don't usually cook at home)

***Confess to being a romantic, enjoy, candlelight, a fireplace, candles, flowers, beautiful music, dancing, especially slow dancing in the living room, melting kisses - long warm embraces - cuddling, spooning ~~~
The six things I could never do without
Quality time with friends and family

Humor, Laughter, Smiles

Nature... love being near 'water elements' of any kind

Human touch, affection, intimacy

Love, loving and being loved. The primary joy of LIFE ~~

Quiet times to enjoy and recharge ~

Relationships/friendships, both short and long term, as well as friends and family, all of whom I am grateful for.

Of course, I could not live without air, shelter, food, etc but feel this question is referring to those things that are 'aside' from the 'essentials' for basic survival.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I actually enjoy those times when my mind is 'still', at peace ... However, I sometimes have fun wondering what Life has in store for my Next Chapter ...
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical? You might find me watching a movie at home by myself, having dinner with a friend, attending a gathering/event with kindred spirits, reading, or taking a late night walk, or on my MacBook ~~
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Mmm ... funny, I can't think of anything to write, right here :)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–70
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you have read above, and feel we might have a connection ~~
you will KNOW :)