36 Oakland, CA
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My self-summary
i'm a queer trans boy who likes queer people with all kinds of bodies and genders. I'm a soft-spoken and tender mama's boy with deep working class roots. I'm drawn to people who are grounded and present and have tender hearts. I'm looking for folks who have good queer politics, are sex and body positive, trans affirming, and committed to open and thoughtful communication. I feel most comfortable around folks who are aware around race/class/misogyny/fatphobia/femmephobia/ableism/transphobia.

At the moment, I'm mostly looking for friendship connections and sweet, low pressure dating adventures. I'm really into the idea of deep, epic friend romance, going on adventures together, cooking for each other, having tender cuddles, and sending little gifts in the mail. I want to show each other all the the ways that we matter beyond sex, that we are worth more than what we have to offer with our bodies and our sexuality. Snuggling, flirting, and even sweet make outs can sometimes be a part of friendships for me, and in terms of casual dating, I am also looking for an emphasis on connection, friendship, and taking care with each other's feelings.

I am open and inclined to cultivating long-term, deeper connections if it feels right.

Aquarius sun/Scorpio moon/Virgo rising.
I’m really good at
Taking care with people's feelings and being intentional with communication. Being a big spoon.
The six things I could never do without
queer family and community, a cat to cuddle, kinky switches, a connection to nature, staying grounded, respecting boundaries.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
cuddling and cats
On a typical Friday night I am
midnight snacking
You should message me if
you want to have sweet, sexy times and/or friend adventures.