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59 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35-65
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm an idealistic realist. Or a realistic idealist. Definitely an incurable romantic. I’m curious and love to see possibilities.

I enjoy learning about people. My work allows me to do that, and for me that is a blessing.

I love conversation -- nights out with friends where we talk and talk and suddenly three hours have gone by.

And I love slow dancing.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in storytelling: teaching, facilitating, and encouraging people to share true stories from their lives. It's pretty amazing work that engages both my fascination with people and my love of narrative.

After 16 years on the Upper West Side I moved, in 2012, to one of the more "suburban" neighborhoods of Brooklyn. Loving the space and the quiet -- and Brooklyn!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
exploring all sides of a situation.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm a good listener. Also that I love to laugh, and to find the humor in anything.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite movies are mostly classics and romances (and romantic classics). Rear Window, Moonstruck, Dodsworth, and The Best Years Of Our Lives are particular favorites. Preferred music genres are jazz and classical. Beloved TV shows include I Love Lucy, Everybody Loves Raymond, Burns & Allen. Also many British comedies & dramas. Books I read these days are mostly nonfiction, and generally related to my work. And I like all kinds of food! Very easy to please, cuisine-wise, and open to trying new things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love of my friends and family
Greek yogurt
Working out
Work I love
Learning & discovering
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what needs improving, and how to make it better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
meeting friends for drinks/dinner -- or sitting happily on the couch, eating popcorn and watching something great on TV.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I cry during romantic movies. Also some TV commercials.
You should message me if
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you're interested in meeting, or at least open to it. I don't know where we'll go together, or how far -- but as Spanky & Our Gang once sang, I'd like to get to know you.