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2mileswim

56 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:43am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
How do you distill half a lifetime into a few paragraphs? I'm still learning about myself.
Like most people I’m full of contradictions and layers. I am usually (and strive to be) kind, generous, compassionate, thoughtful, considerate, loving, responsible, fully present and GGG. I can be the opposite at times but at my best the opposites don’t surface very often or for very long. I can be lighthearted yet intense, engaged but also solitary at times. Intellectual pursuits and discussions are wonderful but lowbrow humor is often hilarious (think Harold and Kumar).
I like to have fun, to laugh, to make others laugh and be happy. Serious and businesslike when I must be and relaxed and playful when I can. Happiness is my choice.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Several years out of a 20 year marriage and I’m looking forward to the rest of my life. I have a gratifying practice that allows me to help others improve their lives, three wonderful children, two of whom are on their way out of the nest, good friends and close family. I’m very fortunate for all I have and try to never forget that.
Non-work time is taken up with looking after and keeping up with my children, playing basketball and baseball, swimming and walking. I love to get out and about for Town Hall lectures, live music, road trips, outdoor concerts, bookstores, “good find” restaurants, movies and new experiences (Polar Bear Plunge on New Year's Day the most recent example). Cooking up a good meal at home with someone special and staying in for the evening is a real pleasure. Quiet Sunday mornings with a full pot of coffee, a newspaper and homemade brunch are a treat. I love books, magazines and TED talks. Continuing to learn, to ask questions and to look beneath the surface are extremely important to me.
Rich experiences, quiet or not, make life so enjoyable. I stay open to opportunities and whatever presents itself. I hope to cross paths with a woman of depth and substance who revels in the differences between us and treasures the energy we have together. A woman who is as accepting of me as she wants me to be of her. A woman who doesn’t mind challenges or being challenged, lovingly, of course.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting people at ease, listening, drawing out smiles, befriending dogs and children, trivia, massage
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, my smile...I'm told I have a pleasant demeanor
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Recently read Cormac McCarthy, Michael Lewis, Stieg Larsson, Graham Greene, John Updike, Paul Harding, Gabriel Garcia Marquez; I enjoy history, biography, Buddhist and spiritual works, news and issues magazines.
Indie movies, thrillers, action, mysteries, Pixar, some sci-fi, dramas
Favorite music lately has been adult alternative, alt-pop, some indie, nice guitar.
Almost any food is alright by me: Italian, Thai, fusion, Mexican/Southwest. I'm a pretty adventurous eater and like trying new things, and sometimes a great burger is just perfect.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Aside from the obvious necessities - Curiosity, smiles, laughter, touch, hot showers, warm socks, music, learning - I can't limit myself to six
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why? Why not?
What exactly is short-term dating?
Are we evolving, progressing or moving in some other direction?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With one of my children, out with friends or just relaxing after a busy week
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
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You should message me if
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If who I am or what I want sounds interesting

Or if you are a compassionate, empathetic soul and hope to find a friend, lover, companion and playmate.

I'm not actively seeking my soulmate (not exactly sure what that is), "the one" or even a particular type. I want to connect with others and see what happens. Compatibility is hard to define but easy to recognize. You know chemistry when you feel it.