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34 M Philadelphia, PA

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Last Online
Yesterday – 8:04pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Hinduism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Hindi (Fluently), Urdu (Fluently), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
2013 was a banner travel year for me. I traveled through 25 cities in 4 continents!! 2014 has been a slow year - only 2 countries (hopefully, Canada counts) and 3 cities. Boo!! I hope to fix that in November.

Day to Day:
My day to day seems boring to me, but likely chaotic to everyone else. I thrive in chaos since my mind seems to dart from place to place. I am a lawyer, a clinician, an entrepreneur, and a teacher (and yes... all at the same time). I get bored without challenges and keep trying to find the next mountain to climb. Entrepreneurship is one of the hardest ones so far.

Divorced, I cant cook, but I am learning. I recently bought a calphalon set of cookware, and steaming dim sum is my new favorite thing ever!!

As you can tell from my pictures, I enjoy travelling. I started staying in hostels last year when I travel (for pleasure). I LOVE it. Its fun, you meet new people and arn't stuck in a boring hotel room. I met some rather interesting people including a world medal winning russian swimmer (who didnt seem impressed by her own work), multiple accountant couples (This is apparently a thing?), and Australians (except, oddly, in Australia) who later come stay with you.

Hostels also taught me what I wont do anymore: Sharing human sized, dog kennels with 14 other men in a capsule hotel is where I may be drawing the line. Not because I am not a fan of cramped spaces, or dislike bathing with naked japanese businessmen, but because it can get hot in the capsule hotels.

On a different recent trip to Amsterdam I discovered that I like art, music and drama -- who knew?!!! I recently went to a modern art museum in Amsterdam and saw a really generic looking "cloth on handle" sculpture. To me, it looked sort of obvious. But, after listening to the audio guide, it turned out to be a seminal work in feminist sculpture. (Which to be honest sounded a little sexist. How is a sculpture feminist? Why does it have to be a reflection on gender?).

I have recently discovered that I enjoy hiking and enjoy going up hills in random parts of the world!! Recent hikes in Japan, Korea, Pennsylvania and Australia have solidified this interest.

Goals for 2014: I want to travel through Africa. I would LOVE some tips for places to visit. I originally thought that Kenya would be awesome, I am told - not so much. I then considered Egypt - yeah, I know - same basic story. I need help and tips.
What I’m doing with my life
1. Trying to decide what kind of DSLR to buy.
2. Travelling the world and trying to decide my favorite cities and then wondering why I dont live in any of them.. It has been narrowed down to: New York, London, Tokyo. (I would like to pretend that Berlin, Paris and Amsterdam are close behind, but they arnt)
3. Watching movies and netflix ( There may come a time when we abandon the BC and AD (anno domini) ways of measuring time, and move over to BN (before Netflix and AN (After Neftlix) ;)
I’m really good at
---- Watching netflix marathons (I need new shows -- help!! I am now watching Enterprise, the 3 episodes of Sherlock Season III, and the latest season of Orange is the New Black)
---- Admitting my love/hate relationship with the elliptical.
----Apparently, I am really good at finding my way to destinations when I can neither read the writing or understand the language. This has been especially useful in Japan.
--- admitting my incredibly bad voice. I have literally had all 3 teachers I have had run away within 2 months of teaching me. I am currently on teacher #4. Update: I am getting better - people dont run away anymore.
The first things people usually notice about me
My boobs -- wait... (if you hang out with me, this is the sort of horrible sense of humor that awaits you)
Seriously - Apparently I have "deep eyes" (No idea what that means)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
1. Movies: Lord of the Rings, Matrix, most superhero movies (most, not all, I am looking at you Ben Affleck);
2. "New Classic" Comedies - Office Space, Ted;
3. TV Shows: Game of Thrones, Big Bang Theory; House of Cards, Orange is the New Black
The six things I could never do without
Old List:
1. Dessert/Ice cream
2. People to talk to. e.g. Friends, cohabitants (in hostels), someone special.
3. New stimuli - Tell me why you are passionate about anything and I am hooked. I want to know more.
4. Shoes that make me feel like a superhero.
5. Colorful socks for those times when I am not wearing fun shoes.
6. Reddit (I need a 12 step program for this one )

I can do without everything on the old list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1. Drugs (no, not the "illegal" kind. Well... they may be illegal when they start, but I help make them legal)
2. Why OKC believes that I can only have one graduate degree.
3. Why finding that connection with a woman is so difficult.
On a typical Friday night I am
working till 10:30 and planning saturday -- coz thats when the fun happens.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I haven't read a good book in a decade. All the books, manuscripts and papers I read end up being about work. I tried reading a book recently and realized I just didnt see the point of "light reading" anymore. I think that's sad.

The last books I remember reading were by Jules Verne (Journey to the Center of the Earth) and H.G. Wells (Time Machine) (and that was a LONG time ago.) Did you know some people think that Wells and Verne were the same person? Also, did you know that Verne wanted to write a book about how the late 1900s will have glass buildings and motorized horses, but the publisher thought that it was too unrealistic. I think Jules had to have traveled through time to have come up with a lot of this stuff. (Which begs the question, what came first? The glass buildings or his imagination of the glass buildings?)

I dont like watching sports. I like doing sports, and usually have done rather well at every sport I wanted including martial arts. But going to a baseball game sounds worse than watching paint dry. I would likely land up talking the whole time.

During my recent trips I ate a tarantula, emu, moose, elk, kangaroo, silk worm, and grasshopper. (Not all at the same time!!) Oddly, I cant eat turtle (It felt more cruel than the others)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
1. You are looking for someone to hangout with. (and you really want to hang out, as opposed to merely talk about it - I have had too many girls cancel the day before meeting. If you have done this more than once before, you must have a rather busy schedule which makes us incompatible.)
2. You want to watch a movie.
3. You like going to museums and can explain why the art I am looking at is significant. (There are only so many times I can look at a picture thinking, this would be amazing if I knew what I was looking at.)
4. You are looking to start with a friendship.
5. You like to text --- a lot!! I LOVE communicating -- I need to stop!!