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2q2bstr8

47 / M / Gay / Single

Manchester, New Hampshire

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Last Online
Today – 3:45am
Ethnicity
Native American, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
No, my name isn't Ryan, its "Jake" and no I'm not insane, he he
Oops, Jake just jumped over a candle stick, he he . . . yikes, that was HOT! I'd cook my balls off!!!
>HEY GUYZ, FANTASTIC GUY HERE . . . Looking extremely young for my age. I'm completely spontaneous and very competitive . . . in the bedroom . . . as well as out . . . always thinking outside the box, he he (if you are not shooting at least leave with the intention of shooting) and no, this isn't a sex add. . . . Nothing takes me by surprise . . . I have many interests . . . so just ask. . .

I am extremely athletic, asking more of myself every day than anyone could ever expect from me . . . having been stricken with Hemiplegia since the age of 3, very young, and testicular cancer survivor, as of February 2006, Live Strong (lost 70#'s, was at 210-220#'s at my peak, since January 2006, because of the loss of solid muscle . . .I am down to 175 lean #'s, gained 25# of 70. . . dam it!) . . .I've been in the bodybuilding business for 12 yrs now. Like every athlete, I've had my ups and downs, remembering every year, I don't get stronger, I just get wiser . . . My present focus is to stay ripped and as far as bulking up, well I'll decide that later. Being homeless at the time of my peek really did a number on my diet as well. Physical fitness and sports activities, for me, have become an important way to work out emotional stress and keep me young looking, limber, and active. Team sports are fun. I find great commradery and love to be a team player, both professionally and on a private level.

From "Pearl Harbor" (General: Mr. President, with all due respect, sir... what you're asking can't be done.
[President struggles and gets out of "wheelchair"]
President Franklin D. Roosevelt: [serious tone] (DO NOT TELL ME, IT CAN’T BE DONE). . . .Just a way of looking adversity in the face and saying, BRING IT ON!!!

My spirit has grown tremendously stronger, and as a result, within the last few years . . . I've always looked for, and often seem to bring out, the best in people . . . . My best feature is my ARMS, however, I've heard, my BUTT is pretty spectacular as well . . . . Love kissing, body contact, jacking, and mutual oral. . . kiss like a PORN STAR should, love like a PORN STAR would, F?k like a MARINE, oops, if he had more time, and didn't have to be back at his ship at 13:45 for tea time, oops that's an Air force thing, he he . . . long and sensual . . . love hours of 4-play . . . vivacious to the extreme, as well as versatile in every way . . . although I prefer to BOTTOM, I will TOP for the right man . . . Are you the CHOSEN ONE?
>But aside from the fun stuff. . .

The question has been posed to me. . .
>Why are you the ultimate fighter?

Answer: I've weathered a lot of adversity in my life (haven't we all) and due to this, such experiences have made me a stronger and much better person. I'm Spiritual, yet not Religious, and due to this, I'm an extremely, strong willed person, so . . . don't under-estimate me. I may surprise you!!! "Pain is Weakness Leaving the Body." Osteo-arthritis may have me, but I am not ruled by it (another philosophy I live by)

My ruling planet is the moon (cancer, the crab)
I'm trans-fixed with the OCEAN and its many MYSTICAL POWERS . . . it SPEAKS VOLUMES to me . . . I'm also META_PHYSICALLY INCLINED and love anything to do with PAST LIFE REGRESSION, I've been told I am an OLD SOUL, definitely more than just "TOP SOIL" here, OK I HAVE PSYCHIC ABILITIES and because of this, I'm EXTREMELY INTUITIVE. . . PARANORMAL Psychology fascinates me . . .(Dam it, if only these spirits would just leave me alone!!! and "no I didn't choose to be gifted" and if I could just shake the one that’s been possessing my body for the last 44 yrs, I'd be fine. I believe it to be of my still born Aunt Dorothy of 1923, he he) I've always wondered why I've had this strange obsession with the 1920's and 1930's. . .Art Nouveau/ Art Deco style . . . However, I HAVE BEEN KNOWN TO INSPIRE MANY. . With much sensitivity and emotional intensity. I am a creature with a hard shell on the outside and soft and gentle on the inside. NOT AFFRAID of getting my hands dirty, my feet wet, or my ego "slightly bruised" so BRING IT ON BIG BOY!!!! If you can't handle the truth, I can!!!

Besides working out at the gym, practically 24/7, I'm almost "psycho" when it comes to the gym. . .it is after all my passion, religion, physical therapy, philosophy and way of life. . .everyone asks me where I'm going, well I tell them "I'm going to WORSHIP." If they only knew!

I'm SEMI RETIRED and VOLUNTEER at many facilities for DISABLED YOUTH. . .[having been one myself, I wouldn't have made it this far, without the constant support of "some" family, friends and my faith, along the way]. . . but in general, teaching myself. . .however, I do specialize in teaching troubled youth, that there is more than one way to communicate, through artistic endeavors, I am able to open them up to a non-frustrating, non-threatening means of communication, without the need for HOSTILITY or VIOLENCE. . .

Presently I'm involved in a grass routes adventure, called "Urban Combat" a non-profit orgaqnization specializing in teaching its students mixed martial arts. Once again giving an opportunity to kids to release some anger in a more focused environment. Teaching such Martial Arts/ Defensive tactics as Tai Chi, Arnis (sticks), Kempo Karate, Cardio Kick boxing, as well as Childrens Classes , other Self Defense Classes, and specialized training for those with special needs, whether it be physical, social, or emotional needs. We started it last week (9/11/09) with 20 participants and its growing everyday. We are presently looking for Corporate Sponsors!!

Remember: If you don't catch bad behavior at a young age, it often continues later on in life. Crime can't be stopped, but it can be prevented, before it happens. It is my lot in life to do everything in my power to prevent it from happening, maybe to you!! I also volunteer my spare time, working with the elderly (they are precious to me), keeping them young is important. Laughter goes a long way!

Remember: The only way to STOP BULLYING or VIOLENCE is to EDUCATE individuals about RESPECT and TOLERANCE, (yes, even I looked like "Stewie" [Family Guy Fame] when I was a baby) just because someone seems "odd" or "different" on the outside, doesn't mean they aren't a "great person" on the inside, and often end up surprising us all, with something great to offer. The secret is EMPOWERMENT, not discouragement! Hate is easy, LOVE takes courage!

(From Family Guy Fame. . ."How's that, Brian, you flee- bitten mutt . . . and that Lois", "Oh! It’s beneath me to chat with such a fowl woman". . . "What! You plan on breast feeding me . . . with that, HA?" . . . . Lois: "Oh Peetah!!!")

My ultimate goal in life is to WRITE A BEST SELLER/ Auto Biography and make it funny, make you laugh, cry, but also make you llok at yourself in a way that you hadn't looked at yourself before. Defining a meaning of life perhaps (when, or before I get my Doctorate), hopefully I will not run out of material too soon, I have volumes . . . I'll just die. . .LOL. . .

To be a promoter of HEALING THE "MIND, BODY, AND SOUL." Possibly open a gym for the disabled. I would also like to open a series of homes for battered men. . . Also to become involved in the Para/Psychology/ Criminal Justice/ Forensic/ Law field . . . marrying the many disciplines together, is like looking at something from many extremes . . . "RIGID-COMPASSION" is what I call it, or to become a Victim's Advocate! (Court Appointed Advocate) or CASA, Court Mediator or Life Coach!

I JUST CAN"T SEEM TO LIVE WITHOUT. . .
a) Jeans with holes the size of blue balls, or big enough to put your balls to the wall or sucked by a MAN THAT KNOWS BETTER, or knows how!!! . . . Dam it!! The hole in the ASS is too big, guess I gotta throw this pair away!

b) Truly, HELPING SOMEONE OUT OF A RUTT with one word, or action that just blows them away. (And, NO I"M NOT FULL OF MYSELF) I leave that up to YOU!!

c) T-shirts that are well faded, that you just can't part with . . . "Now what does that say!!!" Ah ya "LOVE EVERY BONE IN YOUR BODY . . . ESPECIALLY MINE"

d) MY TRUE PASSION FOR PEOPLE
-Be courteous to everyone, but be friendly to no-one, the marine way

e) Commando at all time . . . Ooh-rah! . . . Born to be free! Can't wait to get home and "just get nakid"

f) Everything cammo, GOD I CAN"T SEE/FEAL MY FACE (Joan Rivers fame), he he

g) At least an hour at the sauna . . . really loosens you up
Getting rid of excess body water is key!

-Also I recommend a remedy that works for me . . . if you are trying to lose wait
Carrot juice and the right diet for you really cleans you out, LOL, also keeps your hair color and peak condition, especially you red heads! Remembering everything in moderation is a good thing!

h) 3 pots of coffee really gets you going in the morning, well maybe not 3, maybe 3 cups should be my limit.

I) At least three times a day . . . I am whacking it!!!
"I don't care, I gotta get off!!"

j) 4 times a day, I think of porn, "One of my New Years resolutions was to give up PORN . . . NOT" Dam my virtual memories low, wonder why?

. . . . Or the guy sitting next to/ across from me, Oh My! . . . He looks HOT! Dear God, I can't get up!!!!
-The guy below me is even Hotter! . . . WOW!!!

k) I can't live without EROTIC FICTION (I do have a vivid imagination) . . . hence the artistic ability!

l) I can't decide between an English Bulldog, a Rottweiler, or a Doberman. . .I've had German Sheppard’s, Beagles, and Labs, could you please help me pick?
I guess I'll have all of them some day, just not in the same cage, he he

m) Toughest mascot for The Marine Corps' is: the English bulldog.
The Navy's: a goat. Go figure!

n) I can't seem to live without my wreckage/ WEC fighting
Always gets me so F?N horny! UFC ROCKS
. . . Urija Fabre . . . Matt Hughes . . . Sean Sherk . . . Frank Trigg . . . OMG!
-Flank your adversary when possible; always protect your own. . .
Never cheat (always cheat); always win, or at least give a fair fight, THE ONLY UNFAIR FIGHT, IS THE ONE YOU LOSE. . . .
. . . My ultimate fantasy would be . . . to be in a wrestling hold, while having sex!!! NOW THAT"S HHHHHOOOOOOOTTTTTTT! CHECK OUT THE BOYS AT WRESTLEHARD.COM/ MUSCLEHARD.COM
Brocky Brown . . . OMG!

o) Lists . . . I have them, I make them, they are made for me, I hate them. . .can't we just be spontaneous!
Yet it’s the only way I can truly make sense of anything in this world!
So, I guess, they're here to stay!!!

-To have a plan, is the marine way
-To have a back up plan, because the first one probably wont work, is even better!

p) I love to have my beliefs challenged, that's the only way you can truly test your strength, by an opposing view and by this, ultimately grow. But always remain wanted, it goes both ways.

If you can't handle it; or feel the need to belittle, demean, or resort to name calling, when confronted with a difference of opinion, save your breath, YOU'RE PLAYING WITH THE WRONG DAWG, GET YOUR OWN KENNEL, but preferably across the street, you're too close!

A TRUE SURVIVOR on a personal and professional level

Disclaimer: Putting good faith in your words, however, ASK ME TO MARRY YOU! Or BE UNKIND! In our first chat, and I MAY NEVER SPEAK TO YOU AGAIN, LOL . . . OR EVEN WORSE< BLOCK YOU. . . I HAVE WAYS OF PUTTING YOU IN YOUR RIGHTFUL PLACE with style, dignity and grace! Be polite, be professional, (Chat-room etiquette) but . . . if you must, do it The Marine way! (Have a plan to kill everyone you meet/ or everything in your path . . . LOL. . .if it absolutely, positively must be destroyed over night!!!! HEHE)

We all seem to be damaged with EXTRA BAGGAGE we carry around with us, wherever we go, NOT NECESSARILY DRAMA, per-say . . . (so when someone says "zero tolerance 2 BS," I have a hard time buying into that ideology, and often times, I feel people like this are RATHER SHALLOW, sorry guys, its just my opinion) however, guys like this, that I tend to have a relationship with, mind you, only on a superficial level, tend to be on overload, and often faint!! Or you get too deep with them, and they start to literally crack under the pressure . . . AH! And or DAH!!! ADRIAN. . .he he. . .

It is, however, what we do with such baggage that is key, often turning a negative into a positive, and how we often are inspired by those around us, that's what makes us truly unique and often turns someone that is "not into BS," into someone that you can truly have a meaningful conversation with.
SO TALK TO ME! DONT BE SHY!

What Superhero would I be?

My Result: Spiderman
Like Spiderman, I am cautious and aware of danger. I love science and fear rejection (but eventually deal with it), inadequacy, and loneliness (don't we all). I would have powers but above having powers, I would also like to use my intelligence to outsmart opponents.

I am friendly, compassionate, and genuine guy
What I’m doing with my life
I'm I'm a truly COMPASSIONATE INDIVIDUAL, currently Double Majoring in CRIMINAL JUSTICE and PSYCHOLOGY (Walked in graduation with my Associates Degree in Psychology in May, 2009) (This is why I need to keep a low profile guys, so please have respect) hope to go all the way towards my doctorate, in both disciplines, and eventually, go for my degree in LAW (although one of my professors in Psychology, thinks I should go for my masters in WRITING, go figure).
I’m really good at
I'm really good with my sense of touch, my intuitive nature/mind sometimes goes into overdrive often knowing what you're thinkin way before you do. . .I'm extremely spontaneous, able to melt into any groove there ever was. I'm spiritual but not religious, being multi-denominational is key. . .my goal is to understand all views. I am a very Liberal person often floating way right politically.
The first things people usually notice about me
the first things people notice about me is my smile and great personality, hey if you can't laugh at yourself as well as life whats the point. Don't take it so dam seriously, life is too short
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
News buff, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situational Comedies, Instructional Shows, Movies, Sports, Re-runs, CSI, Law and Order SVU, History Channel. . .I like action movies, Science Fiction, Romance, Drama, Thrillers, and I'm an actor( my best friend once said, "Remember, they don't give out better than a Tony award". . .Lord of the Rings, Star Wars, Harry Potter. For music selections, I like Country, Rock, Electronic, POP, Classical, Vacuum, Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Latin, New Age, Ambient, Dance, Soul and Gospel music. . .My reading selection News, Ancient, Anthology, Auto-biographical, Biography, Classical, Comic, Computers, fantasy, FICTION, health, History, Home and Garden, Instructional, Music, mystery, nature, Philosophy, political, reference, poetry, religious, satire, science, science fiction, sports, technical, I'm an Author . . .Love all kinds of food, especially chinese, and I'm a great cook.
The six things I could never do without
my Jeep. . . my hands, cause without these. . .I couldn't create beautiful things. . . my attitude towards life. . .positive. . . my memory my friends. . . my family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
beautiful men, striking that sensational pose you only dream about in magazines or bill boards. being happy all the time is key. . .never a dull moment!
On a typical Friday night I am
On a typical friday night I could be found doing a number of things. bar hopping with friends, cozying up to an interesting book, writing about things that should happen, dancing the night away, strolling the beach with someone special, having fun
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
the most private thing: too personal. . . Just ask me?
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
Looking for not only a few good men, but a few "GREAT MEN" to CLEANSE MY PALLET, and possibly, CLEANSE YOUR'S TOO; to SPIT SHINE YOU, and possibly POLISH YOU FROM HEAD TO TOE, with my tongue . . . making you GLOW WITH ENVY!!!. . . and IF YOU'RE LUCKY, FROM THOSE THAT WANTS TO BE LIKE YOU!!!!

Army and Air Force tested, and those airline pilot's, OH BOI (legendary top's) IF I'M WRONG PLEASE CORRECT ME!! But I know I'm right!

"Hey, you know, you're not supposed to be painting titties on the side of my airplanes, and if you do, DON"T MAKE THEM LOP-SIDED!" (Pearl Harbor, 2001) never heard of painting a dick on the side . . . well never mind!

Navy and Marine approved (legendary bottom's) and if I'm wrong please, correct me, he he, "Oorah"

"Well, Serge . . . How're you gonna know they're submerged, if they're submerged, SIR? " . . . are you thinking what I'm thinking, LOL

Can't say I much know about the Coast Guard, or any of the affiliated branches, haven't gotten that far yet!! he he . . . but I'm sure I will. Although I have been told, I possibly was a Hospital Corpsman, in the NAVY--Go Figure... somewhere in my past lives. Believe it or not!!! I have dreams about holding a dying SERVICE-Man in my arms all the time. Although each time it seems to be a different guy.

BTW, if you haven't guessed, I HAVE A MILITARY FETISH!! I am up for the challenge, and if you're looking for a "right of passage," try me on for size. I definitely can hold my own.

Having been from a military family (and no, I'M NOT IN THE MILITARY, Thank God)
My step-brother served as A MARINE in the Gulf War (Kuwait) 1991-1993/4.

Truly though. . .
. . . .Why does Oceanside have to be so far away from the east coast, he he

Duty, Honor, Loyalty, Respect, Integrity, Discipline, Honesty, Confidence . . . Courage, and Commitment. There's nothing stronger than THE HEART OF A VOLUNTEER. Although the Clinton yrs really did me in. Yeah, I know. I would die defending my country, but not because some bigot hated me. Die for Honor, Not Stupidity.

My Grandfather was in THE ARMY in WORLD WAR I (PFC 323 GD and Fire-Co QMC). So coming from this background, I appreciate structure, commitment, and discipline . . . but without the attitude and arrogance.

NOT ANXIOUS TO DIE SIR, JUST ANXIOUS TO MATTER! A brilliant man would find a way not to fight a war." (Pearl Harbor 2001).

My DAD was an ALL-AMERICAN athlete in college. (Keene State/ UNH) 1959-1964
Baseball: Pitcher
Basketball: Forward
Football: Half Back (run like the wind) or Running Back in today’s terms
Almost went Pro in football for the NY Giants, said he wouldn't play for the fame. . . all he wanted to do was play the game, now that's true dedication!

If I ever played football, I'd be the first to nab the Safety, Tight End, or Wide Receiver Position, LOL

My dad's sister (My Aunt who just turned 87years old) served in the USO/ WAVE in 1941 where she met her future husband, My Uncle, who served in the Coast Guard [CEMT Coast Guard WWII, yeah!, I know what it means (Captive Exercise Training Missile)]. Both of them (Aunt Lois and Uncle Russ) have taught me a huge amount, and I am forever grateful. Bless you both!

Thanks Guys (all military personnel, both male and female), wherever you are.

You are my TRUEST OF HERO'S!

Marine Creed
"Civilians cannot, and will not understand us, because they are not one of us. The Corps- we love it, live it, and shall die for it. If you have never been in it, you shall never understand it!"

A little marine humor . . .
>Every day the barracks were full of gay bashing jokes. "SHOW A LITTLE SYMPATHY FOR A GUY AND YOU'RE A QUEER. MISS ONE OF THE TOUGHER PHYSICAL CHALLENGES AND YOU'RE A FAG". I love the movies of this genre and stories that challenge this attitude!

-As the sun rose over Parris Island, the Senior Drill Instructor realized that one of his recruits had gone AWOL. A search party was dispatched immediately. After a few hours the recruit was discovered hiding in some bushes. He was sent back to the base and promptly escorted to the Drill Instructor's Office. The instructor asked the young recruit, "Why did you go AWOL?"
The recruit replied,
"My first day here, you issued me a comb, and then proceeded to cut my hair off.
The second day you issued me a toothbrush, and sent me to the dentist, who proceeded to pull all my teeth.
The third day you issued me a jock strap, and I wasn't about to stick around and find out what would follow that SIR."

-Why do marines think they are better than everyone else?
"'Cause R ooniforms R more perttier."
-What happens to a soldier when he starts to believe his own B.S.?
He becomes a Marine.
-Why do the marines have the lowest intelligence test entry standards of all the services?
Because a mind is a terrible thing to waste.
-How do you get rid of a bunch of marines?
Easy, just tell them that CNN's two blocks over. My ultimate favorite
-US Marine Corps. Oath of enlistment:
I, (state your name), swear...duhhh...high and tight... (Grunt) cammies...uhhh...perty uniform...Air force (women, or in our case, men!)he he...OORAH! So help me corps!

-Why is it that. . .
IN TIMES OF PEACE, WE BURY OUR FATHER'S
IN TIMES OF WAR, WE BURY OUR SON'S!
. . . Just food for thought!

-I LOVE AMERICA, I may not always agree with foreign policy, or may have handled things in a different way, I support the President, I may not like him, but I stand behind everything this country stands for, and what our past and present heroes’ died for.
THEY ARE MY ULTIMATE HEROE'S. . . .

"There's a certain PEACE that stands on the other side of War, if that War shall come, then I WILL FIGHT IT"(My favorite quote from Sean Connery in the movie "First Knight" 1995) and a quote I live by!

(“DANGER, Will Robinson, DANGER" . . . "SHAVING PRIVATE RYAN", I mean, "SHAVING RYAN'S PRIVATE'S" literally) Dam, I dropped the razor!!! Oops!!!!. . . Land, sea, or air, it doesn't really matter,
(Although, I've never really experienced it at 37,000ft . . . . I would like to know what it feels like, a mile up, before "I KICK THE BUCKET" . . . The Bucket List (2007) . . . another one of my favorite movies . . . ha-ha. . ."What would Buffy and Jody think . . . Mr. French!"

Looks aren't really important, what I mean by "cute", so long as you are able to carry yourself well . . . with dignity, and personality that draws envy from those that want to be like you. For those guys who are drop dead gorgeous, I take my hat off to you, it does take a tremendous amount of strength and discipline, and (I’m so jealous!) both externally and internally, and yes I admire that. However, I have a deep desire to know all of you, not just "surface junk.” "Substance over Beauty". That's truly giving everyone the chance to be noticed, inside, and out. No, I DON"T HAVE A SPECIFIC TYPE with whom I'm looking for, you are all worthy of so much more (hence the 4,000+ I've hot listed, go figure). . . Tattoos are OK! In the right places, however too much of this, distorts the beauty underneath, the real You! . . . LUV RED HEADS (you guys are extremely rare)

"Red, do you think they are making us do this, because we are young and dumb and full of c?" WELL, YOU FIGURE IT OUT!
(Pearl Harbor, 2001)

BE PROUD TO BE BALD, but hair color really doesn't matter . . . ."DIVERSITY IN ADVERSITY" has always been my motto!!! That’s what I call, not only cute, but . . . EXTREMELY HOT!

Remembering always: A man is known by the friends he cherishes and what he holds dear to his heart, the words of wisdom he says, and THE THINGS HE DOES IN A LIFETIME. A hero is known because he (MUCH LIKE A VISIONARY) can SEE THE INVISIBLE and ACCOMPLISH THE IMPOSSIBLE. (A quote by a fellow RJ member, Thank You!!) And a legacy I hope to leave behind!

I'm searching for someone. . . .A FRIEND 4 LIFE, a Special Guy, WHO IS TRULY HONEST, and can be himself. . . Then hopefully after, maybe more! . . . (NO! THIS IS NOT A SEX ADD). I'm also LOOKING TOWARD'S THE FUTURE. . . NOT JUST 4 A SOULMATE, but a LIFE PARTNER, one whom you. . .

-CAN"T WAIT TO GET HOME TO!
-Would literally DIE FOR!
-Can truly GROW OLD WITH and NURTURE . . . .

By reaching your potential, not necessarily mine (that's your job). That’s what I wish to do for you, BE YOUR COCOON, so you can mature into a better, more rounded you, not for me, but for you. NOT THAT YOU, OR I, HAVE "SAVE ME" WRITTEN ON OUR BACKSIDE's. That's not me . . . Only through TRUST and HONESTY can we truly mature as a couple. I expect the same in return, a relationship is a two way street. I'm not one of those guys that are forever stuck behind the proverbial screen but I am genuinely looking to meet a real person, see if there is a connection, and possibly a universe out there for the two of us to explore and possibly make for our own.

I'VE ALREADY HAD THE LOVE OF MY LIFE . . . He died 5 yrs ago, May 6th (of complications with Hepatitis-C) and HE taught me a lot about life . . . Having been his caretaker for 8 of 12 yrs. . . . He taught me that everyone you meet should be "treated like GOLD" for you never know when you will be this lucky again. This is very true. He is still very close to my heart, and still teaching me, so if you are willing to share that heart, or have been, or are going through a similar situation, talk to me! I will listen. . . I have a big heart with plenty of room left over . . . maybe someday!

I also have a huge network of friends willing to do anything for me, as I WOULD DO FOR Them, and possibly YOU too!!! So if this is you . . . I would be HONORED to know you!!

“When men lie together, and knowledge and virtue are passed between them . . . that is excellent and pure.”
"Alexander, the Great "(2004)

Die young, Win Fame
Die old, and you are more likely to be forgotten! LOL
(Without leaving a lasting legacy of your own)

Young or old, doesn't really matter.

If young, I'll discipline you.
If older, ooh yeah, bring it on Daddy!

I like to take in a Great Movie (something I can learn from, that really touches my soul)

Travel (to a place that would teach me about the diversity of life).

With a deep need for security, I surround myself with sentimental objects from the past or where I've been. And no, that doesn't mean you; I tend to like things I can get some use out of, LOL, not just sit pretty upon a shelf, collecting dust for all eternity! He he

I am fantastic with money and generally take a long-term view of things.

I also enjoy a vast communications (bringing me to a whole new understanding of life). I'm also intuitive and reliable and can be trusted. I'm a great business person as well, combining my artistic flair with originality and drive, and an understanding of business matters, marketing, and the needs of the public and the community, my number one priority. I have a natural ability to be diplomatic and to speak out and when necessary, keep my mouth shut. Except here, LOL!

Cooking . . . I love to cook for someone, other than myself (Stir frying, and homemade soups are my favorite) and I love the Japanese Diet, it's simple, I am a creative domestic romantic, with a strong love of the home, often honing in on family and tradition.

I also love the great outdoors, hiking; walks along beaches, kicking up the sand, having the tide go over my toes. After all I am a water sign!!! I also love running or jogging in the surf, great way to work out the calves. Experiencing life to its true and fullest quality is key!

Nightclubs "on extremely rare occasion" when traveling! Walks in the moonlight, cuddling, dancing in the rain, waterfalls are my favorite.

Being inventive with PASSION and LAUGHTER ALL THE TIME . . . LIFE IS WAY 2 PRESCIOUS 2 BE TAKEN 2 SERIOUSLY, if there was truly a way of bringing the outdoors in, I would, there is so much beauty to be had, if you'll just reach for it and touch it often.

Every night I watch the sunset and soak up every last ray of its warmth, and send it from my heart to yours. (Pearl Harbor, 2001) start a garden where you are and if it spreads, share it with those you love. In other words, you can't always choose WHERE YOU LIVE; however, you can choose HOW YOU LIVE!

As far as color: Pale/ pastel yellows and purples are my favorites.
This combination drives me nuts!!!! Almost better than sex itself! LOL

Never leave without LOCKING AND LOADING first . . . to always SERVE AND PROTECT those you love . . . Peace Out . . . my Brutha' and fellow bud's!

PS
-If you want to know more just ask!!!
Be careful what you wish for, for it may come true!!!

Thanks again for reading my lengthy profile and putting up with my quirky madness!
-- Always remember give something back to those that gave, unconditionally, so much to you!
Not necessarily those that are closest to you, but those with whom you adore, look up to, and cherish. . Believe me it goes a long way!!!
PAY IT FORWARD!!!
Peace Out!!