I am 29 as of 12/12 and looking to meet new people mostly in the DSM or surrounding area (but honestly looking for something much more LTR) over friends but you generally have to start somewhere. I am pretty easy going, and can be shy when you first meet me, but once you get to know me I tend to be a flirt. I am pretty honest which can be a fault but when I go with my friends to say the mall they love me because I won't let them buy some ugly piece of crap :P
I have red hair, some ppl think thats hot...whatever you like... I have been happy to be single for the last while and so am content with myself which you should be content with yourself before you are able to share yourself, so not worried about not dating anyone though it would be nice and I won't rule out the idea. I don't like to rush into a relationship, when rushed they end in nothing and it seems you really never knew the person at all.
I have found that I am not one really for the club scene...I maybe in the mood to go some night but I wouldn't say it's for me every weekend. Though I do like to go out dancing with friends.
I have some goals in life of what I want to do and hope everyone else does. One of course was to get my first book done by this fall, which I did :D but only the the first draft, so I enjoy writing. I went to school for fine art but that wasn't going to get me anywhere so went back for graphic design and work for a major newpaper and magazine company.
I am looking for a guy that knows what he wants out of life, he is able to have a commitment with just one person. I REPEAT!!!!! ------- I don't like guys that are into the game, and mind games they are irritating and old, the chase is lame, this isn't first grade. I want something more but honestly the internet is full of lies, BUT i do have hopes out there, that there are a few decent ones..SO I THOUGHT I finally met someone decent on here. (I do believe there are decent ones out there though!!) .but turns out to be nothing but games, and only to find out they deleted their account later...so I thought I understood people, but who's to say they were even using their pics late alone real.... I am NOT into these kinda games, or the chase...we AREN'T in elementary school... If you're serious about something mean it! my pictures are me, and always recent! Yours should be too, AND they should be you!!!!!!! Also being active is very important to my life now, and it should be in some way important to you as well.
Are you still reading ;)
I would like someone that is active. I have been going to the gym since this past new years on a reg basis, and work out now 4-5 times a week so it would be nice of they were active in some way as well. Not only does it help emotionally but physically just feel better after :) So guys that are average to athletic to muscular body types. Just because you aren't athletic doesn't mean anything, there are other things more important than a hot body....and just because you have one NOW doesn't mean anything either, bodies change over time, but really personalites never change.
I like people that are secure with themselves and know for the most part who they are or what they want. Being out is a plus since running around secretly is a bit of a pain.
I like there to be quite a bit of communication, without it, you never really get to know me. Sometimes I can be quite talkative lol, and say "LOL" way to much online....
One thing that really doesn't work with me is narcissim...I mean ya, everyone has some sort of it, but I don't like it when it is VERY obvious...people that think they are gods creations and hot shit..which they think impresses someone just makes me think they are not even worth the time or bragging, yea thats cool you drive a bwm convertible but how much are you in debt? I am a humble an genuine kind of person.
I am not looking for hook ups, I have been fine with being single and not going to hook up with some guy just because he thinks I should. Also I dropped a guy in a second because I found out he just wanted to get down my pants, and so that hooks ups does apply. Also I think people that have to move with the crowd and don't have a mind of their own, FAKES if you will...don't waste your time and mine, I can see right through the illusions. ALSO if you put up pictures they better be you!!!
I have said a lot because with the internet, it is so easy to lie about who you really are, or have pictures that are 1 to 2 years old and you look NOTHING Like them........which my profile pic is always recent as possible and if you wnat a recent one, hell just ask :) and I wanted to make it as easy for a guy to see if he would like to maybe hang out with me sometime or go out some night.
I hope that after reading all of this you are still interested in getting to know me that I hear from you. And I didn't try to write so much just had things to say LOL....DID you make it through? :P
I am calm, genuine, and flirtatious