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39 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 14
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm genuine, honest, creative, and inquisitive. I've been told that I'm bright and self-aware. I don't play the game, BS or do the cocky/arrogant thing; I am who I am.

I love hiking and nature. I keep fit with kickboxing (more for cardio than self-defense), biking in the city and trail running in High Park.

I had lived 3 years in Vienna. 3 months in Zurich, and 30 days in Vancouver -- and enjoyed the sights and culture which broadened my horizons.

Quirk: For a long time, I had a 6 yr old cell phone. It dialed phone numbers. Yet part of my work is high tech/e-commerce, go figure. (Then I left the charger in Zurich, I have a smartphone now.)

Don't pay any attention to okcupid's personality thing. Some of it is way off.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
In a nutshell, I've moved to downtown-ish Toronto, rediscovered the city and enjoying it. Going with the flow but hoping to settle down again (for the 2nd time, I was married before, I wanted kids, she didn't; don't know if it's a pro or con to volunteer this info). I'm able to at least consider relocation (my work is portable that way) if it's a nice area.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Looking younger than I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I read novels voraciously in my youth; don't make much time now.
Movies: There are many that I don't recall from the top of my head
Music: Mostly indie/alt rock, and I appreciate swing/jazz, classical and bits of everything else.
TV: In no particular order, New Girl, Nathan For You, Penny Dreadful, Homeland, Boardwalk Empire, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, House of Cards, Mad Men, Rome, Carnivale, Impractical Jokers
Food: Pad thai, thai curry, butter chicken & naan bread, spicy salmon rolls, shish kebab, pizza... I'm hungry
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fresh air
Fresh food
The deep laugh that takes me by surprise
More than six things
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When I'm not enjoying the simple things in life, I'm probably thinking how to make the best out of something or maybe admiring the absurdity of life.

(For example, people are social animals - we want to see, hear, speak to, even smell, and touch each other. Yet here we are online, squinting at small photos, blurry photos, photos that may or may not look like us in real life. Then there's a series of messages where we pretend to get to know each other more in a digital alternate universe. And typing things (like this) that we'd never say in real life. All that virtual effort to find out if we truly want to see/hear/touch each other.)

I've got little or no instincts about a person's online profile. So, if you think you might want to see/hear me, and you're feeling a little shy about saying 'hi', just imagine a cute little bird on your shoulder assuring you that I don't bite.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't know. Like this one Fri night, I played boardgames for 4 hrs. Then, biking home at midnight, on a friend's recommendation, I stopped by an art exhibit with crazy erotic art. And feeling that I was neither a boardgame geek nor a flirty artsy-fartsy but able to have fun at both events and not being particularly typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My alias (say it like "too voonderbar") is German for '2 wonderful' and I'm a more modest guy than that sounds.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you want to, you should message me whoever you are. I think you should message me if:

You're clever or worldly, compassionate, somewhat active, and probably a bit quirky. You have experienced a serious long-term relationship (or have the heart and mind for it). You believe it's important in life to give others the benefit of the doubt, i.e., ask more and assume less.

You think that online messaging is (fun but) a poor substitute for real-life chemistry. Sooner than later, you prefer to chat on the phone or meet up in person at a coffee shop or anywhere nice to see if we connect.