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37 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:15am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I'm a very active and restless personality. I moved around a lot until about five and a half years ago when I realized I found a part of the world- the Bay Area and to some extent Northern California in general, that really felt like home. I've previously lived in Miami, LA, Boston, NYC and other places, and always felt like I was waiting to get to the next town till I came here. I visited Istanbul, a truly gorgeous city, in 2010 and could only think about the ways it made me think of San Francisco.
Until my 30s, I was hell-bent on a life in cloistered academia.
Although I did teach as an adjunct prof for a time, the academic life didn't really pan out for me. At this point in my life, I'm rather thankful that it did not as being outside the academy has prompted me to turn to community organizing, connecting with a broader strata of people than I think I knew I was capable of.
What I’m doing with my life
I write a great deal, and have for as long as I can remember. I think that in my child-hood and early adult-hood, writing was a way to escape a reality that discomforted me. As I've grown older, writing has become my way to interact with reality and try to set it aright.
In my early twenties I dreamed of being a screenwriter. The script I'm most proud of focused on Leon Trotsky, dying from the ice-pick, watching his life past before him. Trotsky tries to rearrange his memories so his life does not seem so defeatist using the techniques of Soviet montage to "re-edit" his life. But this only gets poor Leon into more trouble...
Gradually, I began to focus more on film theory. My Master's thesis tried to argue that certain film-works from so-called second and third cinemas could dis-interpolate audiences from thinking of themselves as subjects of capitalism just as apparatus theory had maintained that Hollywood cinema conditioned audiences to capitalist subjectivity.
These days, I focus on political activism and agitational journalism. The journalistic stuff started out being, once again, rather academic and research based- scribblings on the Japanese nuclear crisis and its roots in the US occupation; the class character of our public education system and why, nonetheless, we need to defend it. My political activity started getting more "hands on" when I started documenting- and partaking in- street clashes with the cops during Occupy Oakland and San Francisco. Since then, I've been covering anti-police brutality struggles in the East Bay, particularly the work of the Justice 4 Alan Blueford Coalition, the Justice for Andy Lopez movement in Santa Rosa, and the (horrifying, but at times darkly hilarious) misadventures of the Oakland PD.
My former thesis adviser has asked me to start writing for the magazine he edits, Cineaste, reviewing politically-oriented documentaries. I've also started blogging about avant-garde comic books. And, of course, I'm a total GoodReads and IMDB review-writing nerd.
I read, walk, and explore museums voraciously.
I’m really good at
1. I can convey complex abstract concepts in a challenging yet accessible way.
2. Relentless self-deprecation: I have an idea for a video piece entitled "Portrait of My Self-Esteem." In it would be me, playing myself, admiring an attractive woman (also played by me, but in drag). I overhear the woman saying that she (I) finds me (myself) very unattractive. In response, I (as myself) start weeping uncontrollably. Then, the video would end.
When I tell friends this idea, they either think it extremely creative or deeply disturbing. You decide!
3. Regaling folk with tales of creepy shit that happened to me as a younger man (mostly in LA- big surprise!) and (usually) conveying to the listener why I consider such experiences to be, in retrospect, life-affirmingly carnivalesque.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I read alot of continental philosophy and critical theory. I've been reading a lot of Alain Badiou and Giorgio Agamben recently. Heidegger and Althusser are my two fave philosophers, but I'm also really into Walter Benjamin, Theodore Adorno, and Jacques Derrida. Martin Jay's histories of 20th century continental thought are great reads.

My two favorite contemporary novelists are Gou Xingxuan and Orhan Pamuk. Besides that, my taste in fiction is, I confess, a bit predictably canonical: Virginia Woolf, James Joyce, Samuel Beckett, Dostoevsky...

Movies: Antonioni's "The Passenger" may be my all time favorite film. I devoted a long chapter of my Master's thesis to it. Chantal Akerman, Bela Tarr and Arichitapong Weerasthakul are among my fave contemporary filmmakers. Nuri Bilge Ceylan is pretty great too. Also a big Godard fan- and some of my favorite Godard films have come from the last 13 years- particularly "In Praise of Love." It wasn't widely seen in the U.S. so if your a JLG fan and haven't seen "In Praise of Love" then do your self a favor.

TV: Fawlty Towers, Young Ones, Wondershowzen.

Music: I'm a free jazz guy- Charles Lloyd, Keith Jarrett, Albert Ayler, Peter Brotzman. Also like a lot of punk and indie rock. Recently, I've been rediscovering the wonders of the Minutemen. Favorite singer-songwriters are Elvis Costello, Lou Reed, Patti Smith, Bob Dylan, Richard Thompson, Tom Waits. Again, a bit predictable...
Having said that, if you don't know who Linton Kwesi Johnson is, you need to YouTube-that and experience one of the great, relatively unsung artists of the twentieth century.

Food: Everything, but especially anything weird. Generally, I seek out the most exotic thing on the menu, and try to find the most exotic menus to boot. I'm also really into fine cheese. There's something about the way different milks can congeal into so many different textures and flavors that fascinates me.
The six things I could never do without
Thinking. A city to live in and explore. Books. Movies. Museums. Struggle.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
This is the way society is organized? Really?!

How seriously we should take any of our categories of "knowledge" given that none of us can have any concept of what death has in store for us.

If and how an art work could interpolate a radical, anti-capitalist subjectivity without naming or giving face to that subjectivity (which I think would negate much of its radical potential).

If it would be possible, or desirable, to cinematically depict the process of philosophical thought.

That Occupy was a hell of a thing here in the Bay.

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On a typical Friday night I am
...at a political meeting. If its a rare night off from that then at an art museum or bookstore. Or, if I find myself in Oakland, I'm probably just getting tear-gassed. Goes with the territory.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm short. (See "Details".)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
...you choose to do so.