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30mermers

33 Medford, NJ Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 29–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:44am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Medicine
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am sincere, passionate, loyal, openminded & down right awesome. You should be too! I'm looking for the man who's out there looking for me.

I'm smart, funny & semi-aesthetically pleasing. I've dated plenty. I know what I want, but haven't found the right person for me just yet.

I'm shy, yet equally assertive & dare I say aggressive with my feelings? Meaning, I'm not afraid to express how I feel. I believe in open & honest communication, plus mutual respect.

I wear my heart on my sleeve, which means that I tend to get hurt a lot, & yet I learn from the pain. At least I remain true to my character. I love who I am! Apparently, an INFP type...

One common adjective that's universally used in reference to me on a daily basis...Weird. Don't know why, but I've heard it all of my life. If having my own point of view, dark sense of humor and unique sensibilities makes me odd, then so be it. Embrace the strange.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I can say, with great certainty, for the first time in my life, that I am finally doing exactly what I should've been doing all along...loving myself, first.

I receive great satisfaction by working as a Women's Healthcare Provider. I've been doing so for many, many, many years & this field is truly my calling. I help my fellow sex acquire specialized & compassionate care of their female parts. Currently, working with breast cancer patients, while SLOWLY earning my pre-requisites for a 2nd Degree BSN program.

I'm simultaneously finding the courage to create my art again because I lost my artistic identity shortly after earning my BFA in what now seems to be a life from long ago & far away.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Kissing : * Cuddling, Loving...
Experiencing feelings more intensely than most humans, which sounds pompous & yet numerous people have made that observation? Making food creatures. Awkwardness. Laughing because I am happy, nervous, scared, angry...what have you. Yes, I know that's odd. Bonding with strangers. Animal whispering. Not taking myself too seriously. Taking care of others. Admiring the beauty of our world at least one time per day. Sleeping. Swimming. Printmaking, color theory (I can mix any color paint), wood carving/prints. Pretty much anything besides math.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
In this order...that I walk on my tippy toes, so consequently if my hair is worn up in a pony tail it perpetually swings back & forth. I smile a lot, yet not so much in photos? I have a plethora of freckles, especially in the summer. I am a tom boy. My nostril piercings. Glasses. I'm prettier in person...don't photograph well!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music = Raised on a fusion of Rock & Motown. I have a particular affinity for Pink Floyd, CCR, Neil Young, America, Tool, Mad Season, AIC, Black Keys, Alt-J & much, much more.

Books = Pema Chodron, Fahrenheit 451, Lolita, The Origin of Species, Frank Herbert, Thomas Harris, Max Brooks, Mira Grant...

Movies = HORROR & SCI-FI lover!!! Thing (The original), Dune, Grindhouse, Silence of The Lambs, Dead Snow, 28 Days Later, Ilsa, Resident Evil, Natural Born Killers, Annabel & Elvis, Dreamcatcher, War of The Worlds, Shaun of the Dead, American Werewolves in London. Comdedy: The Jerk, The Princess Bride, The Man With Two Brains...
Shows = The Walking Dead & American Horror (Seriously, the only shows that I purposely watch & religiously.)

Food = Awesome sous chef! Meat lover. Steak, potatoes, cheese, bread & black beans.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The women in my life.
My four legged friends especially my boxer lady, Melah.
Coffee.
Love.
Knee socks.
Cuddling. Official bunny!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Animals. I really want to experience their world perspective.

Hawaii. I WILL be a resident after I complete my nursing degree.

Ocean exploration & how I really should become SCUBA certified.

When will I find a person of the opposite sex who truly understands & adores me? I'm a unicorn!

Superficial & atheistically speaking...my future tattooed & bearded Clark Kent or Logan if sans corrective lenses.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing's typical...I do as I please. However, I am a huge fan of getting comfy with some tea & a good book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not very private...seriously, ask me anything. Life is about sharing our stories. Some noteworthy "things" about me...

I was in a relationship for half of my life. I loved, lost & learned SO much. I'm still a hopeful romantic & can't wait to be all goofy in love again some day.

I have a coveted cat whisker collection. However, no animals were hurt in the production of this hobby. They are magical gifts shedded by mystic beings.

I am terrified of the inevitable popping noise created when asked to open a can of biscuits. It startles me every time.

Old fashioned dating style...prefer phone calls over texting, especially when being asked out on a date & gifts from nature make me the happiest (moss, acorns, moths, etc) Best gift ever = six-legged starfish. And flowers, finally...sigh!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you are seeking an intelligent, fun & adventurous buddy. (Museums, nature, arcades, concerts, movies, what have you...)

...you value knowing why the juice is worth the squeeze! I never have & never will be into meaningless intimacy. Apparently my heart lives in my vagina.

...you seriously want a monogamous lover. I admire the non-monogomous (it seems so freeing) but I personally don't like sharing genitalia with multiple people & I don't want to be with a man who is cool with another man loving up on me.