I'm spiritual, but in a more intuitive, personal journey way than weekly dogmatic consumptive, always checks a certain religious box or any group melded sort of way. I like, no love, independent film when I have the time to watch it. I have some screeners that look like interesting prospects. I am drawn to inherently interesting and unique people and things. I think that enriches our experiences and ultimately, ourselves. I like to casually bike, see local concerts and shows. I try to hot air balloon once a month.

Actually, I've never even been near a hot air balloon. I'm not usually so full of hot air, ba-dum-bawm-chhh....*crickets*......is this thing on?

I would at long last love to meet someone I am excited to make a life with. I understand that any relationship is going to take some compromise. Some things are kind of already set in stone for me though....nonsmoker (asthma and previous nicotine addict myself....), tall, responsible, charming, fun, witty, cultured, laid back. Also, I can't imagine getting rid of my two cats, so the guy I end up with should be a cat lover....or at least be a cat liker.

I get a great sense of purpose and accomplishment from my job, but it is highly stressful. So, someone that is laid back and can laugh easily would be a completely joyful addition to my life. Someone who can equally share those duties of the household is my ideal match. I am not applying for a maid, nanny, or erotic services position. I am looking for a mutually loyal, interesting, intelligent life partner who loves the p*ss and vinegar right outta me.

If you're a guy who says he listens and then ACTUALLY hears me, we may click. If you, too, are looking for a partner, not just a life "arrangement." I think we may have something.

If the idea of someone occasionally kissing you with their eyes open seems natural, we are quite possibly kindred. If you're just as attentive and tolerant, or even share some of my interests, we've got a good foundation. If you are completely okay with giving up the remote control at least 55% of the time, we should set a date. Extra points go towards life adventures outside this box. If you're okay with days spent at home with the soundtrack provided by sirius (though I´m thinking of killing my tv) that usually falls somewhere from the traditional jazz lineup to the classic alternative stalwarts ranging: Joni Mitchell, Dylan, Talking Heads, The Cure, Bowie, Nirvana, HENDRIX. Clapton is always a dial-stopper for me as well. Fairly commercial, I guess, but I love those guys stuff. I am up for anything aurally orgasmic, but I was conditioned by the old airwaves. Otherwise, I guess, I should learn bridge and canasta so I can get on with the march to the grave of my social calendar....actually....I am up for meeting others for some triominoes, gallery cruising, bringing my Spanish to a conversational level, or some wholesome activity as such.

career, create, looking for love, enjoy Not waste my time here on this orb, PERSONAL spiritual journey, learn, finding new friendships, virtually everyone I know has moved in the past year: I am made peace with the obligations of some of these kinships by lovingly referring to these as the great migrations. I am looking for similar dependendable types. In terms of my life, I am a mover but refrain from shaking mostly.

expression, sports, picking up on the less obvious at times, complaining about the state of the world some days, making people feel at ease, surprisingly.....

The microchip implant scar...

ummmm....how should i know your subjective experience? Is that possible to ever fully gather an objective perspective of another's subjective experience?

In a nutshell though, to answer the question and get closer to being 100% my own friend which is obviously holding me up from finding a fulfilling mate, a good number of people have always commented on my smile.

nonfiction is my preference in books though I'm prone to leaving them scattered about my house to be utilized as mini respites when they catch my attention...my little existential journey among a labryinth of books' pages. My tastes in music and movies are ecclectic and slightly eccentric as me.

readingcurrently getting back in to a book about Jungian psychology (this i read sporadically & allow the concepts to marinate).......I just read (late May-early June, 09): Kerouac´s Dharma Bums, then dumped Visions of Gerard 2nd chapter in for Holy Cow by Sarah Mcdonald(?), and The Celestine Prophecy penned by James Redfield.....among other rags, quarterlies, hardbacked, dog-eared bunch of intellectual decadence lying around.....the timing of the content in the JUngian book is ALWAYS synchronistically eerie each revisit as if a metaphor for my own life: hello archetypes....ton of it is as if the lid of my brain is lifted and time is poured in.

I have a slightly immature palette. I LOVE pizza. I don't eat a lot of red meat. I've tried. Calamari made my lip swell when I tried it a few years ago, so I don't eat too much seafood. Am opening up more to macrobiotics....seaweed sucks less each time, Taolib. ;)

I would very much prefer not to live without books, my cats, independence, art, a purpose, equal access to technology, omg: my f'ing tv.........for shame it's true. Reevaluating the latter....I have not looked at tv for two weeks (June 09)....geez that sounds feindish, eh?

my purpose, growing my soul, universal vibration, an infinite multiverse and all time and possiblities being instantaneous, whether I've become too idiosyncratic to ever cohabitate with anyone ever again.... the path I am currently and am going to walk this life. Decisions, decisions.

Does anyone know what happened to the ex list?

sleeping/recovering from the week, working late, running, listening to sirius while surfing the net, out on the town every blue moon or so, watching a movie or Dr. Who, ghost whisperer occasionally, 30 Rockmy favorite episode has to be the night court one; I laugh harder and longer at each viewing of it, Big Bang theory (and I LOVE the vanity placcards and have an obsession with shroedinger's? = terrible with names, lol, cat), SNL, the office, Graham Norton, the surrealistic, documentaries about existential or esoteric stuff and occasionally physics based things that are phrased in gelatenesque-brain terms that amaze me and escape me quickly, all sorts of paranormal shows from hear to their, considering the effect of sincere happiness unscathed by envy for another's happiness as genuine happiness of my own to have witnessed that possibility in the world so as to sustain the hope it's attainable;

planting flowers, wishing I had a housekeeper or............looking at catpivating men and writing outlandishly presumptuous emails to said irresistible men on OKC.....so, in essence working on my dork factor.

The true levity of the situation is that I am virtually resigned to a life rendered tragic by vices, neurosis, and comedically black circumstances. Or, just exchange here for a members=only, one size fits all as the wear here is quickly approaching a year *sigh* patience is fortitude, right?.... Still, I press onward whilst saving my dough for a possible eharmony defection......(update.....save the dough, Okc´s the way to go).

You actually read AND UNDERSTOOD my meandering, she'll-be-coming-round-the-mtn. wandering consciousness approach to a profile/exposure of my nature so you may play dough it with yours....what color is it? Do you feel we may fit like a glove?................................. Or, if you're just so inclined: say hello. Friendship is a good cruise to take before boarding the relation ship, don't you think? I'm looking for true life adventure seekers. So, if you'd like to move this social life off wireless support and on to a more tangible frequency, let's exchange ideas, giggles, and such...