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3foldutpiandream

29 F Shingle Springs, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:30pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black, Native American, White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Rather not say
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am by no means perfect in anyway, shape or form. I'm human and I'm insecure about things, as well as make tons of mistakes in my life decisions. I learn lessons on a daily basis. I'm not a mean or intimidating person by a long shot so sometimes it baffles me that people are hesitant to message me. I don't really know all the reason, maybe it's my extra weight or the fact that I battle with physical health. Maybe I'm not pretty enough. Maybe it's the color of my skin. Who knows what causes the reluctance. All I can say is I'm an overall nice person. I try my best to treat every person that messages me with respect. So don't be afraid to shoot me a message, I try to give some kind of response to everyone.

I am a really outgoing, friendly, talkative person. I love meeting new people as well as entertain my circle of friends! I consider myself a people person. I am told that I am a very kind and loving person, even when I don't know a person very well. Those are just qualities that were instilled in me from a very young age. I grew up in a relatively big family, being one among eight children. I am very close to my family, raised by a single strong mother! I am so lucky to have an amazing loving mom like her! I am very passionate about music and makeup/beauty! I'm also a huge karaoke fanatic! I go quite a few times a week. It is absolutely amazing to be on stage performing/singing! I have been singing since I was a very little girl! I really enjoying singing while being accompanied by my guitar. I have a very creative side. I like to express my creativity through many different outlets. I'm told that I am a genuine person. I'm real and don't like to portray myself any other way. I like being me. I'm comfortable in my own skin and I won't change for anyone, but myself.

Biggest thing about me is that I have struggled with my weight for most of life. The past 3 years I have committed to a new healthy lifestyle. I have lost of good amount of weight, but I am still on my journey to getting to my weight loss goal. I feel like this is a very important thing to mention because people are somewhat shallow when it comes to body image. I don't have the perfect body, in fact I still need a lot of work, but one thing I can say is that I love myself for who I am now. I have accepted myself where I currently am. I am learning how important it is to love me regardless of where I am, in all aspects of my life. I have no doubt in my mind that I am going to achieve all that I have set out to accomplish when it comes to my weight. I do have to say, if you can't love me now then you don't deserve me for the person that I am going to be in the future.
What I’m doing with my life
Working towards my fitness and weight loss goals everyday. I am working on getting my makeup business out there, so that it can be accessible to more clients. In the near future, I am going to go back to school for my cosmetology license. I am also just learning to live one day at a time while enjoying the little things in life. Surrounding myself with people that love me and people that I love spending time with. Life is too short to take all those things for granted. Plus you don't know when something can dramatically change.
I’m really good at
I am kind of a Jill of all trades, master of none. There are a lot of things that I am really good at. I feel like I am really good at singing! I have been doing things musically even before I could speak. I used to hum when I was only about a year old. I am also really good at makeup. I started doing makeup at the age of 17 and by the time I was 18 I had my first wedding gig! I am super passionate about making people feel beautiful. Everyone has beauty within in them. It is really fun to find that inner beauty and make it visible for all to see! Another thing that I am really good at is making people feel super comfortable around me. I just have this trait in my personality that makes people feel at ease, like they have known me forever. I get it all the time where people think they know me but I have never met them before in my life. It is one of the weirdest and coolest things that I have ever experienced!
The first things people usually notice about me
I am told that it is either my eyes or my smile! Yes, I had to ask people on this one!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love reading all kind of books. Watching all kinds of movies! Listening to all kinds of music! Eating a variety of different foods. Wanna know more details. Ask me!
The six things I could never do without
These are not really in any particular order! 1. Music 2. Family & Friends 3. Karaoke 4. Sushi 5. Flip Flops 6. The beach
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Relationships, my friends and family, what the future holds. What I am looking for in a guy especially because I want my next relationship to be well thought out! I feel like it's important to share what I am looking for and it baffles me that they don't really elaborate on this specific topic because it is a dating site! I could respond with a cliche answer but what I am looking for is far deeper than that! I mean obviously the normal things right off the bat, like a physical attraction, a good sense of humor, someone that shares the same beliefs and values as I, but that doesn't even scratch the surface! I want a guy that understands, that is willing to work things out and not ignore the situation at hand. I want a guy that is going to love me for me no matter where I am at that point in my life. I want someone that knows me and cares to know about my feelings and opinions. I don't want someone that is going to be a drone, agreeing with everything I say. I want him to have his own opinion on things. We don't have to see eye to eye on everything. Someone that wants to spend his time with me, but knows how to step away and have time of his own. I think this is extremely important in a relationship. People have a tendency to spend too much time together. It isn't healthy to always be in each others company. I am not saying that it has to be everyday, but I think that it is important to keep your individuality even when you are in a serious relationship. I want a guy that is going to just be himself and not try to change for me and isn't expecting to change me. It should be an as is kind of relationship. If you can't love me now, most likely you won't like me in the future either! Just gotta be honest about that!
On a typical Friday night I am
Either karaoke, game night with friends or a quiet night in watching movies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm in love with the Backstreet Boys! Still to this day! Yes, they are still around! :) I also have lost a lot of weight and am still on my journey to being more fit and healthy. I've lost 60 pounds and still shedding weight. It's the hardest thing that I have ever done in my life, but it's worth it!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 22–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you're interested and would like to know more about me, but bring a personality! Think about what you are going to say, put some thought into it if you are really interested. I like talkative people, someone that is going to strike a somewhat interesting conversation. You know nothing about me really! There are plenty of interesting things that you could be asking me! I like to have real conversations, so just keep that in consideration before you message me. When I get a message, I look at your profile and actually read it before I message a person back. I also look at some of the questions that you answer as well. I look for commonalities or something that sparks my attention. Maybe you should do the same! :)