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  • Ages 22–34
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Last online
Yesterday – 10:27pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Seeing Someone
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Let's stand out in the weather and not give a damn together.
What I’m doing with my life
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Selling really nice wine to really nice people, and drinking a good amount of it along the way. As far as grinds go, I could do a lot worse. I'm still a bit dazzled about the whole thing, to be honest.

Outside of that, I'm whittling down my creative ambitions into a more digestible list that I actually have a chance of accomplishing. Lately I've been focusing on photography; soon I'll be getting back into video production and, hopefully, I'll be back in the habit of regular writing. Maybe I'll try writing a novel? The concept still intimidates me a bit too much. Maybe in 6 months...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Rock hopping. I can plot my moves out three hops at a time. I'm like the Bobby Fischer of hopping from rock to rock.

Correctly identifying Grüner Veltliner in blind tastings. Specifically this varietal. I have no idea why.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm quite skinny, so that gets commented pretty frequently, though the giant eyes tend to get the most attention.

Also a lot of old ladies are skeptical that I'm old enough to drink, even as I'm pouring them a glass of wine.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a big Hemingway addict. Aside from the misogyny and the homophobia and the occasional antisemitism, he got writing exactly right. I also enjoy Italo Calvino ("If on a winter's night a traveller" pretty well blew my mind out), Faulkner, and especially Jorge Luis Borges: the Rod Serling of literary fiction.

I love Kubrik's "The Shining" for what it is: a brilliantly crafted and extremely efficient terror delivery system. "Children of Men" for it's unflinching, brutal sense of hope. "China Town" for making me feel like a detective, even if being a detective in that movie doesn't feel particularly good. "The Woman in the Dunes" because geez Louise those actors deserved Oscars for getting so sandy.

Kinda been obsessed with "Bob's Burgers" lately. I didn't really care until someone pointed out that it's the one show where the family actually likes one another. It may sound silly but I think Bob's Burgers is a fantastic case study in ideal forms of family dynamics, romantic love, and self-esteem.

Music wise: Okkervil River, Queens of the Stoneage, Los Campesinos!, Eliot Smith... lately, I can't get enough of Godspeed You! Black Emperors, though it does irritate me a bit how they punctuate their name...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
May I never live anywhere flat, with no water in sight, and a sky without clouds. My only requirement in life is that there may always be something blocking my view of the infinite, so that I have reason to get up and explore it.

And maybe a Gallo dry salami and a 2 liter of Coca Cola. Surprisingly, I could actually live without wine, though I might have a harder time making a living...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I should probably stop over-thinking things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking wine with friends over Netflix, playing a game of Carcassonne or Arkham Horror, meeting someone for drinks at a classy bar, wandering around in the fog, looking for monsters.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I had a huge crush on Sara Goss in the 4th grade.
You should message me if
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I don't have a lot of requirements for people except that they be open to possibilities, inquisitive about the unknown and why things are the way they are, and firm in their own sense of self. Which more or less boils down to: if you're an interesting person, and you're interested in me, I'm probably interested in hearing from you.