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52 / M / Straight / Single
- Last Online
- Feb 28
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body Type
- Trying to quit
- Dropped out of high school
- Rather not say
- Relationship Type
I'm a poet an artist and a healer. I build stuff. I am experientially motivated and materially inspired.
Movies... I go by the motto: Any science fiction is good science fiction. other than that...Directors- Peter Greenaway, Jean Pierre Jeunet, the Cohen's, Katherine Bigelow, that aussie guy... specific films... that come to mind just now, Pumpkin, Northfork, Fifth Element, That cute one a couple years ago that was just the girls name but it was a double entendre....? Almost Famous, Kissing Jessica Stein, Serendipity, Tomb Raider, Underworld.... recently really enjoyed 'Insurrection'. Oh, and remember 'Vanilla Sky'? That was good. Most recently.. have you seen 'Sucker Punch'? Wow.
Music: Gothiccowpunkindustrialelectronicashoegazerariatoccattafolk-y. If you've never heard it on the radio, I'm probably listening to it. More beats than not lately. Trip hop, glitch hop, psyphy and melodic dubstep. Still love falling asleep to Mazzy Star or Cocteau Twins and Cat Power. But to get fired up gimme Revco or Bassnecter or Jantsen's glitchy breaks. Beats Antique covers all the basses of grooviness and Fever Ray takes me places. TIPPER!!! and really the whole bay area music scene is, well, just really really good! Also... I am a sucker for covers.
I love well prepared food and so many people do it so well in so many styles, but you really should come over for my o-toro tartare pillars with thai basil and lemongrass topped with caviar and flash pickled ginger served with a miso sake sauce. I make a mean pig in a blanket too. I endeavor to be more raw than not yet for a really comforting bowl of winter yumminess you can't go wrong with some dahl, squash and coconut milk. Though there is little that can compare to a piece of perfectly ripe fruit.
Losing your shit sometimes but still with grace under fire.
Friends who love you even when you're a junk show.
Expressions like 'junk show'.
People who inspire me to love them, what they do, or both.
Burningman. (ok.. I could do without it but I'd rather not)
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 36–46
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating
-You appreciate the austere beauty of deserts.
-You appreciate the opulent beauty of desserts.
-You understand that life is fluid.
-You're friends with a lot of your x's.
-The phrase 'ridden hard and put away wet' kind of excites you. And not because you're a horse person.
-You like to drive fast.
-You used to think that 'die young, stay pretty' was a pretty good philosophy, but now that you're a little older....not so much.
-you can read between the lines.
-you're comfortable dating a guy who's wardrobe of fun party outfits rivals or surpasses your own.
-you are similarly non judgmental, open, loving, accepting and more than just generally happy.
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