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28 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 18
Relationship Type
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Catholicism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Korean (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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"Life is made of small moments like these" -- Above & Beyond

I am a(n):
- little piece of Minnesota nice in the Big Apple. I came here for medical school and fell in love with the city so much I want to make it my "forever home".

- avid athlete. Captained my ultimate frisbee team in college and have since taken up running as my preferred way of breakin' a sweat

- big football (aka handegg) fan. From September to January I spend every Sunday cheering my heart out for the Packers. Go Pack Go!!

- helpless egg. Or, as one friend put it, I'm "not white, but Super Saiyan Asian."

- aspiring polyglot, working on 한국어 for the time being (see above)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Mid-way through my orthopedic surgery residency. I play hard and, unfortunately, work harder

A quick acknowledgement of my friends from back home: Dithilli, Terpsichoreus, and Gyst. Also, the lovely Smile4Me2011. Most are farther away than I'd like. T_T If you happen to be in their area, you should get to know them; they're fantastic people
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Building additional pylons ;P
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Blonde hair, an easy smile, and nearly endless optimism
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: I was introduced to the wonderful world of EDM in February 2012. No music has ever made me feel the way it has: everything from weightless euphoria to streaming tears. I generally stick to progressive trance, but venture into any genre as long as it's skillfully done. Favorite acts include: Above & Beyond, Audien, deadmau5, ilan Bluestone, Madeon, Myon & Shane54, Porter Robinson and Seven Lions.

Food: one of my favorite pastimes is sharing a meal and a bottle of wine. I'll try pretty much everything but my favorite cuisines are: French, Italian, Japanese, Korean, and Vietnamese. Bubble tea is my weakness.

Shows: I don't watch much TV--I don't even own one--but I have a soft spot for anything written by Aaron Sorkin or narrated by David Attenborough. Also, comedic or action-filled k-dramas (City Hunter!!)

Books: grew up reading lots of fantasy (Tolkien, Tamora Pierce) and classics (Jane Austen, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, etc) but these days I'm much more into history, science, social/cultural (Malcolm Gladwell, Bill Bryson), and pretty much everything nonfiction in the New Yorker.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a good subwoofer, my passport, running, sunshine, tea
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Operative indications (it's a work thing)

How to improve. Of late, I've been placing emphasis on mindfulness, and somewhat old-fashioned social graces like hand-written thank you notes.

Also, all the non-medical books I want to read but don't have time to
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Assuming I'm not on call? Singing at a noraebang in k-town, out dancing at an EDM show, or snuggling at home with my teddy bear and a k-drama.
You should message me if
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-you love EDM
-you're a fellow orthopod; I'm always looking to meet others in the profession. Especially girls!
-you're an attractive Asian man, especially Korean
-you wrote comments in response to the standard okcupid questions; I enjoy a good session of banter

You should NOT message me if:
-you are only going to use one word or emoticon/emoji. 0% chance of response. Unless you're Taylor Swift, in which case: "Hi! :3 Wow, it's great to hear from you!" (see? I still used a FULL SENTENCE...)
-we're less than 50% match (we probably shouldn't)
-you're going to be butthurt if I don't respond
-couples looking for a third