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42bens

21 Pittsburgh, PA Genderqueer, Non-binary

Genderqueer, Non-binary

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–25
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 17
Orientation
Queer, Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Kosher
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Education
Income
Less than $20,000
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Hebrew

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am Ben. I bike around Oakland most days, teaching, classes, trails, writing for the satire newspaper. I like various forms of rock, picking up trivia, and puns. Hit me up if you want to talk about gender/queer stuff, meet up for coffee, or whatnot, I'll get back to you. Looking for insane *and* high maintenance.
What I’m doing with my life
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Studying at U of Pitt. Last winter I spent ten days in Israel, life changing as always. I teach three days a week, those kids can drive you crazy after a few hours. Acting in Plays and Singing with the Men's Choir here; we toured to Belguim, Amsterdam, and Paris last year, got to perform in the Notre Dame! Guess where we're going next....!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
getting stuff happening/done at the last minute. "Yes, anding." Finding a way to enjoy any situation. Equanimity in hell, as they say. Back massage. Been playing a wicked chess game these days, since we have 4 boards at the apartment!
The first things people usually notice about me
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The beard, nowadays, but the odd pop-culture references and puns aren't far behind.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Postmodernism and Absurdism. Harry Potter, Stephen King, Princess Bride, Hitchhiker's Guide, Song of Ice and Fire, John Dies at the End, Kurt Vonnegut, Lemony Snicket

Movies: Back to the Future, Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade, Sucker Punch, Princess Bride, Jumanji, Rocky Horror Picture Show

Shows: Adventure Time, Community, Rick & Morty, Arrested Development, Heroes, Parks/Rec, Walking Dead, Battlestar Galactica, B5, Thrones -comma- Game of, Twin Peaks, Broad City

Music: I have 226 gigs (100.5 days) of music, always looking for more, and no quality filter.
Barenaked Ladies, Electric Light Orchestra, Vampire Weekend, Massive Attack, horn sections, synthpop, Tribe Called Quest

Musicals: Next to Normal, Dr. Horrible, In the Heights, Guys and Dolls, Very Potter Musical

Podcasts: Thrilling Adventure Hour, Stuff You Should Know, Alohomora, This American Life, Zenprov, Welcome to Night Vale

Food: Dr. Pepper, Pineapple Pizza, Fancy Sauce, Watermelon Hookah
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My sight
Awesome people
Enthusiasm
Volare (My Bike)
Jews
Improv
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
thinking. How to end my novel about time travel and cats.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wherever you want me to be :P

Nah, but chilling with good tree and great people, maybe the late night improv show at Pitt, or the Floyd light show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm genderqueer/non-binary (they/he pronouns), so you'll often find me in a dress and beard. I end up doing it to class about twice a week, for fun, deconstruction of gender roles, and as a fashion statement. I'd like to find someone who likes a GQ who's not trying to pass as anything but themself. (Matching dress date? You wear the tux date?) Totally hit me up about it, I'll give you the tumblr link.
My guilty pleasure is Darren Criss...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to know more, less, or something completely different. Your profile isn't *entirely* lies. You want to try using "whom" properly. Promise I'm less aloof than this seems; I'd much rather be talking in person.