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68 • San Francisco, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 22–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Jan 2
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Has a kid
- Likes dogs
- English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
I'm a nurturing kind of guy. I am always cooking for my friends, and generally interested in food, from l'Arpege in Paris to a Uighur--Muslim Chinese--restaurant I discovered out in the avenues here in San Francisco. I am a writer, and that takes me on a lot of wonderful trips.
I am 5'10" and 200, so stocky, with big chest and shoulders, white hair on chest, some on shoulders and back.. Sort of your classic daddy/bear, though not so heavy. HIV-, sane and relaxed. Kissing is important, and I have insanely sensitive nipples.
I was a carpenter and house painter for some years. A potter too. Then I became an arts administrator and then a teacher. Meanwhile, I was writing.
I'm looking for a slim to average build, muscles are fine, or none, say 25 to 50 with a lot of wiggle room, and a head with something in it. Someone with cultural interests would be great.
One thing about this site is that there is no place, it seems, for age preferences, so I hope my demographic can find me!
I am creative, kind, and funny
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