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44 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:14pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Tallish, darkish, handsomish.. warm open heart, funny mind, embodied strength/vulnerability. Exploration- many realms. Connector.
Father, Brother... Student, healer. Lots o' laughs. Sacred life...

Less is the new more...

Wishing you the sweetest on your path and infinite self-love.

And.. I am not super woo-woo, on a sweet path and grounded, engaged in the hilarious ridiculousness and infinite beauty of it all.
What I’m doing with my life
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Integrating.. Training strong and resting well.. Serving, healing. Trying to stay in gratitude for every breath and heartbeat.. Playing.. Fathering.. Connecting with great friends, family, teachers.. Tasting all the flavors.. Helping. Diving in. Crackin up. Loving this precious life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Humble :~)

Adventures, bringing light, calmness, loving. Adaptable, spontaneous, helping.
Surrender without surrendering. Fathering. Navigating the multiverse.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My 3rd eye
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Auster, Kundera, Baldwin, Shantaram, Yalom, Pema, Castaneda, Marquez, Lethem, McCarthy, Amarango, Juno Diaz, Toni Morrison, Alice Walker, Rumi, Kerouac, Groff, Jung, Prechtel, Rumi, Trungpa, Neruda, Coehlo, Oliver,Gibran, much much more..

Music: too much to make you read.. Ever evolving. All over the map.. Love to dance and sing...One Good thing about music, when it hits you feel no pain.

Movies: Many many favorites.. Always down for Baraka..

To eat: Japanese, Thai, South American, Coconut water, Avocado Kale and eggs, chocolate, Much much more.. Clean, organic, delicious..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water, nature, connection, physical and spiritual practice, family, sunshine are some..
Keeps changing..
Always my son..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
So many things.. Slowin it down.. Feeling
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No typical.. Depends on what I'm feelin.. Enjoying- like the other nights..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Depends who I'm talking to...
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