I'm here for many reasons the three main being that 1) my view on relationships is rather complex (certainly more than that of anyone I've had either direct or indirect contact with); 2) It's hard for me to find women with whom I have sufficient affinity or who are sufficiently attractive to me within my social, laboral and academic circles, especially given my current location and 3) It's more practical to find potential dates in, well, a dating-oriented environment where speculation on physical attractiveness is mostly nullified.
What do I search for here? Mainly relationships that might include some sort of erotic component at any level. That said and based on my "relational theory" there are over 250 kinds of erotically-charged-relationships I could have with women of various kinds classified according to my own personal criteria i.e. qualities in women that I find relationally relevant. The main two criteria are 1) mutual attraction and 2) erotic compatibility.
Therefore I'm open to many kinds of potential arrangements that may range from extremely casual and detached relationships to relatively committed and exclusive ones depending on the particular characteristics of the subject of interaction.
I'm also open to find comrades, friends, potential project/activity partners, etc. But this is secondary.
Now a bit more on myself:
It may seem that I'm using a "cold" tone here but it's not the intention, and certainly far from how I am in person. I'm just very straightforward, clear and "specific". I definitely do not like misunderstandings. I have a "snarky", and sometimes dark sense of humour it maye vary with my mood, though.
For relationships with some sort of erotic/romantic component I'm extremely superficial. And yes, feel free to hate on me or find me as lame as you wish. I'm perfectly ok with being superficial there.
I do not hold any kind of respect for the socio-economic and political status quo and I find laws and the institutions employed to enforce them an initial aggression on my person and others. I reject all kinds of aggression and that includes state-borne aggression. This also means I do not value people in terms of their economic prowess and it means I do not buy either liberal or worse, conservative (old-fashioned liberal, after all) values.
I do not subscribe to normativity in regards to gender roles nor do I tolerate discrimination based on gender, race, sexual preferences, identity or personal beliefs and/or practices that do not affect third parties unknowingly and/or against their will.
I'm an atheist but I respect and will defend others' liberty to have a religion. What I do not respect is institutions that use faith to project power or acquire and manipulate subjects. That said, though, I prefer it when people are eager to discuss their beliefs or when they do not find the questioning of their beliefs hostile by default. Liberal militant atheists are very often too hostile and too unpedagogic for my taste, especially over the internet. If you're going to be a militant atheist, there's no need to be hostile, not every religious person is the "delusional and evil" minion of an illusory aethereal entity and those who might claim to be ts representatives on this plane of reality.
I do not want kids. In fact as of now I'm planning to get a vasecomy. I do not dislike kids but I find procreation undesirable given my personal life goals and the current state of affairs in the world. That said, I do not criticise people who procreate nor would I be closed to having a relationship with a woman that has kids already if the circumstances make it desirable.
I do not care about distance, I'll travel whatever distance to meet women that meet enough sufficiently relevant criteria.