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4Real4Real

41 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Aug 25
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Virgo
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a web-designer by trade, writer & artist by nature and activist by bloodline..

I can be realistically described as analytical, logical, spiritual, blunt, expressive, perceptive, honest, fluid, FREE, opinionated, selective, REAL, athletic, smart, emotionally intelligent, passionate, challenged, affectionate, conscious, creative, intuitive and far from perfect. Yet these are mere words. Actions speak much louder...

Finding a compatible complimentary soul would be nice.
How well will your chemicals mix with mine?

Physical compatibility and chemistry are required to get the show started, but your consciousness & heart's intelligence will determine how long our show will last and what type of SHOW it will be...

Yet, I have learned everyone isn't meant for everything. There are some who enter our path for today while others are preparing our journey for tomorrow. Ideally there is that "1" out there that just FITS.

I dont care what "color" she is..
Sane, Smart & sexy is a great start though..

I am allergic to games and "fakeness".. Anything fake makes me break out in hives, so lets save the calamine lotion.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Refining my soul, enhancing my mind and utilizing my creative potential...I have recently fallen in love with Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. I have taken a 2nd job at THE academy and training 4-5 days a week....so I dont have much time for b.s hint hint
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Critical thinking, creating, and relating
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
smile, eyes, lips & mostly my mind
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Metaphysical studies...movies with a message...food to live.
There are so many books to list... Anything written by Franz Fanon, Garvey, DIop, Van Sertima, Master teacher John Clark or my comrade Amos Wilson or even the great "egyptologist" R.A swaller Lubicz I can read and re-read over and over...
My favorite light read fiction would have to be Alchemist (Coelho)..or Tasting Freedom- The Octavius Catto story (Im biased because this book is about my family ;)
My favorite spiritual book would have to be the Divine Pymander (Ancient Kemetic scrolls) or the Meter Neter..big shiny GOLD stars if u know what this is...Cupid seems to think I am not "well read"..smh
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
h20..mental stimulation..a womans touch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to save the world...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
writing, creating and on my path...or putting one in the air..lol..
and as of late TRAINING...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am THAT I AM
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are attractive (inside & out), emotionally intelligent, a thinker and tired of games. Artists, activists and revolutionary minds have a special place in my heart.