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4VENTICARAMEL

23 / M / gay / Single

Atlanta, Georgia

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Rather Not Say
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am outgoing, honest, and lovable.

My Self-Summary

Let me advise you all of something first hand. Don't get mad and send me mean shit and act all bogus because I don't return an e-mail or I'm not interested in you. That's wrong and really lame and If you don't like me or how I run my ways then why did you message me in the first place? really now... So if you want to play the "Woah is me" then play it somewhere else. Okay Moving forward!

"My Self-Summary" Wow! I'm young and I enjoy life. I try to laugh as much as I can, anytime I can. I suck at some things and then succeed in others. I'm human that's for sure.
I'm pretty sure that I will get tons of feedback both negative and positive from making this profile. But I don’t really care much what anyone thinks. So to all who know me and have seen this, Um… don’t judge me based on an internet profile because why were you also on here? Yeah… Got em!

Anyway, Moving Forward...
I have been in many different places in my life. Whether moving around or just speaking of emotional feelings. But now I am in a good place and looking for someone to maybe connect with. I don't want anyone to be attracted to me because of what I look like but I do have to say that sexual attraction counts for something. I myself am a victim of sexual attraction. I hear people say "well looks aren't everything." and they are exactly right! Looks are not everything. But when we are out, run across someone that we find attractive. It is usually not the personality that we find out first. It is the body, face and whatever else we look to find attractive. When I think to myself about what I first look at in someone. I do have to say Physical Attraction is something I discover at first. It's later on that we see whether or not that "beautiful" person has a true heart or is just a false image. I have been in relationships before and none have worked out so far. Not that some were really great guys but I just feel that if you “aint feel’n it” then you’re just not. I don't try and focus on why. I just move forward in life and time and worry about myself.
I am looking to meet someone and maybe get to know new people. I'm not a sexual explorer and I don't want to make any adventures on the random. I'm speaking about "Hook-ups.” I’m sorry but I don’t find that appealing at all. I don’t have the time, energy or patience to deal with it either.
I’ve probably written more than most people on here.

I'm really funny and down to earth. I am totally a Taurus.

So I will post this:
Taurus, the second Sign of the Zodiac, is all about reward. Unlike the Aries love of the game, Taurus loves the rewards of the game. Think physical pleasures and material goods, for those born under this Sign revel in delicious excess. They are also a tactile lot, enjoying a tender, even sensual, touch. Taureans adore comfort and like being surrounded by pleasing, soothing things. Along these lines, they also favor a good meal and a fine wine. The good life in all its guises, whether it's the arts or art of their own making (yes, these folks are artistic as well), is heaven on Earth to the Taurean-born.
It's the Bull that serves as the Taurean's mascot, and along with that comes the expectation that these folks are bull-headed and stubborn. Yes, they are. Hey, this Sign has a Fixed Quality attached to it after all, so expect that things will occasionally grind to a halt. That said, Taureans don't start out with the intention of getting stuck. They simply want to get things done, and it's that steady, dogged persistence that winds up being viewed as stubbornness. Bulls are actually among the most practical and reliable members of the Zodiac, and they are happy to plod along, as it were, in pursuit of their goals. The good news for Bulls is that once they get to the finish line, they'll swaddle themselves in material goods. A self-indulgent beast? Perhaps, but if you toiled as laboriously as these folks do, you'd need some goodies, too.
Do I believe this word for word… aghh… yeah! Haha! I have to say. It does make a lot of sense to me.

Anyway, Getting back.
I know when to enter a room and I know when to leave. I'm not one to stand around and watch others in pain and not step up and try to help or cure. I try to help people as much as I can and do what is best. I believe that if it's meant to happen then it will happen. I'm not one to wait around and wait for everything to come to me. Yes, once in my life I used to be the one to wait and it will all come to me type but not at this point in my life. I go out and get what I want. I have many different hobbies and I enjoy all of them. I am not looking to get married tomorrow but I'm so tired of the "club scene." its fun to go out and have a great night (not hook up wise!) But as far as going to meet guys. Please, I’ve been better on the menu at Checkers.
Anyway that’s all. Hope you enjoyed!

What I’m doing with my life

Well, this is one of those questions that is just stupid. What do you mean "what you doing with yo life?" living it.
I work a lot and try to make time for everything valuable to me. I enjoy working and making money so I can survive in this world but I also enjoy spending that money and enjoying life. I try to hang with my friends as much as I can. Limited though! I want to go back to school but right now I just don't feel that is the best thing for me. So, I'm working to pay off some credit cards and really trying to work on some of my goals.

I’m really good at

Making good out of everything, even if things are upside down. Cheering people up. Laughing. Being Funny. Acting. there are many things I'm good at... I just can't think of everything right now.

The first things people usually notice about me

is my kindness and the fact that I look like someone famous (we wont go there)

I guess my smile, people always say I'm smiling (all the time)

That I usually give out advice even when people don't want it.

My shoes, I love shoes and usually always have a good fashion sense. Unless I'm extremely tired or sick. In that case I will look "burnt up!"

My love for doing really anything I want, anytime I want but within the lines of what is possible to do.

People constantly laugh at me and my jokes. I have a good sense of humor and enjoy laughing more than anything.

That I dropped things a lot or make a fool of myself.

I'm really bad about making faces when in conversation but not knowing I've made a face.

I won't take shit for a second, it takes no time for me to get fed up with something that is dis-pleasing to me. So, If I don't like something or a situation be prepared that I will step up and say something.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I don't read. I mean I like it, but I guess I don't really say "Let's go get a book and read" I should though. I have been wanting to read up on somethings that I'm really interested in. So I might have to start!

I love love love Movies. I will watch just about any movie. I really like horror movies. There is no reason to go to the movies anymore, for me anyway. Because I don't like it when everyone is all around talking. Unless it's a really really good movie that I've been waiting to see for a while. Plus, I have a really good DVD library. sometimes I forget I have a movie and find it and then I'm like "Omg, I got to watch this."

Music is my thang! I love listening to music. I am right now in fact. I love to dance and work out to my favorite techno tracks. Not just any techno but good tracks, remixes, etc...
I have a wide variety of music I listen to. so there isn't just one type. But, I'm not really a fan of country. I just can't listen to it. I can stand it for a little bit, well, a second. but then I'm like, Change it! lol.

Food, I will eat just about anything.

The six things I could never do without

Cellphone, car, friends and family, myself and things I have been through, my sense of humor and ummmm people. I love to people watch.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My Future... Where will I be years from now. What will I be doing. Sometimes I think about the past although I hate thinking about my past. But, sometimes you just do.

what I have to do before and after paydays. GRrr!

I guess once and a while I think about how things work. remotes and such. how does the tv put a picture on glass. I mean it's really neat to think about.

On a typical Friday night I am

Typical Friday nights are me at work. If I'm not at work I like to try and go out and do something. I have really been try'n to spend more time with my family and friends. Maybe ghost hunting, yeah, it's new hobby of mine. If all else fails, A glass of wine and bed.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I try not to pick my nose in public. I think it's really nasty but sometimes i will pick it in my car. I mean. If you got a bat in the cave then you got to clear that out. I hate when people see it and don't say anything.
I always tell someone about it.
"Girl, ya need'a Get that!"

You should message me if

Only if you are 100% honest.
You know who you are and what sexuality you are. If you are confused then please don't message me cause I'm really gonna get you confused.
You're not shy or at least not too shy.
You have it somewhat "together" as in: Have ya a working phone, possibly a car, a secure place to live that you call HOME.
You are looking for something more than just random hook-ups or one nighters. (not gonna happen!)
are not into "Open Relationships" or cheating.
want a future for yourself and a family one day.
Have or Come from a good family with a great relationship.
if you are "OUT"
If you think you and myself might be compatible.
If you like me.