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fun-loving, purposeful, and interesting

My self-summary Propose an edit

Hey! Love to make people laugh and meet new people but haven't had much of a chance to do so. My status is separated for almost a year now and we live in different states so don't let that worry you. I'm looking to find a meaningful and hopefully lasting friendship/relationship with a great guy who has some of the same interests as I do. I'm usually outgoing but have my moments as I'm sure anyone else does. I have an 8 yr old son that lives with me. I like anything that has to do with the water. Including seafood. I could live off of it if it were better for me. My personality can be considered multi-faceted as I have lots of eclectic habits/ideas. Oh, and I love to flirt!

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Attempting to see the best in people cuz we all make mistakes. Trying to raise my son to be a cool little dude. Babysitting inmates at the county jail where I work.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Talking, duh! Us women tend to be communicative by nature so I'm into the whole talking thing. Better at writing though...there are other things that I would rather just let you find out for yourself. Ooops! There goes that flirting thing again.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

My eyes seem to get the first response. Then goes the absurd sense of humor I have. But hey, I'll let you decide.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

I'm into everything except country and opera. I like to read historical accounts of disasters. Kinda warped I guess. Love scary movies and romantic comedies. Food-that's where the adventurer comes in. I'll try just about anything. I like to read Khalil Gibran for inspiration and self help stuff sometimes.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

My son, my family, awesome conversation, laughing, and the internet. Oh yeah, my cell phone. How could anyone have made it without one before?

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

Stuff I can't wrap my brain around. I like to try to figure out why things happen. I try to see the upside of situations and think up ways to make things better. Here's a few other things floating by: Who's gonna be president, what am I gonna make for supper, where did that come from and how did it get here, what am I gonna wear to work, contacts or glasses today, what in the world is that? (My son surprises frequently.)

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Watching TV, washing dishes, cooking, cleaning, etc. Somebody, please help!

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

Wouldn't be private any longer if I told ya! But I'll take a stab at it- let's see, ummm, well, I'd have to say I'm a 38D?

You should message me if Propose an edit

You like kids and are ok with just hanging out for now. If you want to have fun and like to talk and listen to me talking...I am wanting to take things kinda slow and don't do well under pressure relationship-wise. If you're willing to let the cards fall as they may and not afraid of being yourself. I'm really not impressed with fake people. Keep it real, man!

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This quiver thing... |
Ok, let's see if I can do this in at least a thousand words. I have sent out several little messages to people that have been in my quiver. I am kind of wondering who's quiver have I been in because I have yet to hear from anyone saying I was in...

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4abestfriend: 409 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it's fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
$20,000-$30,000
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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