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6' 1" (1.85m)
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Average build
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Working on Post grad
My self-summary
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got caught staring into space, fumbling through wonder. a tapestry of screams translated to murmurs, a skipped danced recover from tripping over the world, making laughs out of entirely-fucking-seriousness. i dont always fit and i try to be graceful about it, i dont use apostrophes because you probably know what i mean, but then maybe you dont (slips into memory, recalls touching water, broad smiles, feeling that life is beautiful and that it is surging through me). i have had a life of wild contradictions, opposing intentions, and sorrows that just feed the dizzied, eyes ten oclocked, heart pounds. i smile like i just got away with something. and i did. and i intend on continuing getting away with it.

i am always and never and half of the time.
What I’m doing with my life
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i am in my sixth year of graduate school, pursuing a psy.d. in clinical psychology. although school greatly consumed the last five years of my life, the sixth year is surprisingly free. my life is now spent on working on my dissertation and wondering what i will do with the openness that decreased responsibilities provides. reading. drawing. more and more life.
I’m really good at
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answering the next question.
The first things people usually notice about me
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crazy dance skillz. (the answer to the previous question is making beeping noises to accompany most human experiences)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books are the little prince, the man who mistook his wife for a hat, the twilight of the idols, ariel, franny and zooey, nine stories, the wasteland, a farewell to arms, the unconscious god, trauma and human existence. i read lots of heidegger of late and that is tons of fun.

movies are bottle rocket and other wes anderson movies and to tell you the truth i often get yelled at for never seeing this movie or that movie. i think i have seen like 7 movies in my life. summer rental with john candy.

musics are joan of arc, (i saw cap'n jazz the other day and got a t-shirt), iron and wine, modest mouse, the roadside graves, smoking popes, sun kil moon, the weakerthans, bright eyes, band of horses, taken by trees, owen, rachel's, the postal service, still life, sunny day real estate, the velvet underground, azure ray, i don't know... crud is a cult. the locust.

foods are vegetarian, like cereal and burritos.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
piles of books. soy milk. buddies. vespa. journal. ocean.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
people and jokes and stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
stuck in a reverie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i am pretty sure that the cat is my spirit animal.
You should message me if
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you can't sleep with socks on.

you don't think animals are for eating.