4castissunny
63 Redwood City, CA
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My self-summary
I’m looking for one great guy.
And that’s just how your friends describe you: kind, generous, and thoughtful, someone they can count on. They respect your integrity and your commitment to personal growth.
They also say that you have a good sense of humor and a great smile!
My friends use similar words to describe me. More and more, I feel deeply content with, so grateful for simple things: time with friends, a dinner with my adult son (when his band isn’t touring), a walk with a friend on a beautiful day.
I love the community of people at my church, at my gym. They help keep me physically fit and spiritually recharged.
I’m also curious. I love to learn—through a travel adventure every year or two (at Machu Picchu, dizzy with the beauty and grandeur of the mountains, dancing Argentine tango in Istanbul…) or a Stanford Continuing Studies class such as:
• History of the Blues (Big Mama Thornton, belting out “You Ain’t Nothin’ But A Hound Dog” on a Saturday afternoon? What’s not to like?)
• The Science of the Compassionate Mind, or
• Baseball 101. (I was wild about this class and I’m not even a sports fan.)

I was, perhaps, the only one to read every word of a history (800 pages+) assigned to participants for a Stanford trip to India. Couldn’t help it--I was fascinated. Many happy hours of Internet research also preceded energy upgrades on my cute new (old) house.
In addition to our different interests (the spice of life), I hope you and I can share a common passion. Movies or plays or books? Something that I have yet to experience, or even imagine? Something you introduce me to?
The idea intrigues me…
What I’m doing with my life
learning how to be the best that I can be!
I’m really good at
empathetic listening
compassion
being curious! ferretting out resources -- research
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile and my sense of humor
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
-- The Oldest Living Confederate Widow Tells all
-- A Prayer for Owen Meany
-- Seabiscuit
Movies
-- There are too many to mention!
Shows
-- A Souvenir
-- often, it's the last thing I saw (in this case "Humor Abuse" at ACT in San Francisco). I love plays. When the lights go down, I'm a little kid again. It's magic -- a story is about to be told...
The six things I could never do without
-- chocolate
-- exercise
-- love
-- friendship
-- spirituality
-- learning and growing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
gratitude for the people in my life
On a typical Friday night I am
the possibilities are endless...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Often, I have chocolate as an appetizer before breakfast. Why not start the day off right?
You should message me if
You'd like to get to know me more...
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