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4desertflower

41 / F / Straight / Single

Phoenix, Arizona

Her Details

Last Online
May 2
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am a nurturer at heart! I enjoy spending time with friends and family. I am someone who yearns to get beyond the surface with those in my life and build relationships with substance. I believe in trust, honesty and open communication. I am girly and love to laugh, I can be quick witted, lighthearted and sassy!
What I’m doing with my life
I am very blessed.....I've been witness to my grandparents marriage of nearly 60 years (before she passed) and my parents of 46 years together. As full as my life is, this is where I long to fill it with the right person, my best friend, I am more than ready to start our "adventure" together. I do choose not to focus on those things I don't have (at the moment) but rather be grateful for all the things I do have. God knows the desires of my heart and being His child, He will eventually bring us together. It just takes a little patience and faith!
I’m really good at
Oh, lots of things, mostly girly, feminine things. I know my way around a kitchen and never make anything pre-fab, I'm a make it from scratch kind of girl. Tinkering in my garden. I am the type of person that goes out of my way for others and enjoy making others feel special. I am an "encourager." I am very good with my hands...being creative stimulates my brain.
The first things people usually notice about me
My friendly smile, blonde hair and big blue eyes!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
*Outlander by Diana Gabaldon (and the rest in the series).
*Life as a House, Simon Birch, Mansfield Park, anything by John Hughes, to name a few.
*Dexter, True Blood, Game of Thrones, Homeland, to name a few.
*JJHeller, Josh Grobin, Matchbox 20, Goo Goo Dolls, Maroon 5, Natalie Merchant, Classical, 80's, very eclectic tastes (excluding rap and country).
*Love all food, especially Hot and spicy, really not picky just like quality (not into chains).
The six things I could never do without
My faith in God,
My family and friends,
My pool,
My dvr,
My creative outlets
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Oh, everything!!! It's hard to turn my head off.
On a typical Friday night I am
Always varies....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Psst......

come a little closer......

not here, but if you're nice I may tell you in person.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 34–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you're a gentleman with character and integrity. You have a quiet confidence and are a strong, loving man that is protective, caring, affectionate and knows how to mentally stimulate. If you are looking for the "one" and not just a "good time" I may be your girl. I would love to hear from you!