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58 Watertown, CT Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 49-59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Irish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I consider myself to be active and spontaneous, energetic, caring, unconditionally accepting, patient, intelligent, with a unique sense of humor and always willing to go the extra mile for anyone in need. I tend to be very positive and look for the good in others and in most situations.

I absolutely love nature and gardening, and get excited when it’s time to watch the seeds grow each spring. I find beauty and pleasure in the simple things in life...watching the snow fall, children giggling, water as it trickles in a mountain stream and the feeling of you reaching for and holding my hand.

I love playing tennis, going for long scenic drives, hiking, kayaking and jumping into the water. I also enjoy playing the guitar, but need to practice more. Have had a growing enjoyment in writing...having just publishing my first book, and am working on my second as well as a few other projects. I have a passion for almost anything that involves water, clouds or trees; I so enjoy the peace that I feel watching a sunset over the water or the mountains and that stillness deep inside standing near a thunderous waterfall. Observing nature speaks to my heart.

Last November I became part of a medical mission team which is something I have always wanted to do. It has been a life-changing experience. It's a long story that I will be happy to share.

I think we all cross each others paths for a reason and hopefully we ultimately effect the people whose lives we touch in a positive way. I find it exciting to share our mutual search for self awareness. I believe in living in and making the most of each moment. I hope to meet someone who will add that special something to my life as I will to theirs.

I look forward to meeting a man who is thoughtful, optimistic and enjoys life, has a sense of humor, preferable with a bit of wit, is intelligent, patient and able to relax. Kindness and a good heart are very attractive to me. I value compassion, honesty and tolerance. I absolutely enjoy discussing and sharing thoughts on all subjects, light and heavy, with a special fondness for lively repartee.

I am continuing to see a glimmer of hope in the possibility of finding someone with mutual interests and similar outlook on life ...and don't worry, I don't talk as much as I write; you'll be able to get a word in edgewise : )

Oh, and one last thing...
I recently looked at the personality markers that appear on my profile...Had never looked at those before. I believe they say...
You may be...
I just feel compelled to let you know that 'worse mannered', 'less spiritual' and another marker couldn't be further from the truth.

Anyway, I wish you all nothing but safe and enjoyable moments in this journey we call life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm making it more of a priority to do the things that I would hate to be regretting not having done. Am not close to retirement at this point, but am trying to fit in the activities that I enjoy, to feel that purposeful relaxation is part of my busy life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding solutions to any problem and bring my creativity into any situation I focus on. I put that strength to use in caring for and about my friends and family; doing what ever it takes to help if necessary or to make a difference.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People may notice that I am a genuinely happy and optimistic person; my smile and eyes will let you know how I feel. Can also put anyone at ease...Am an ER nurse, so it's not only my job but my nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am definitely a movie person. Enjoy action, thrillers, drama ..even foreign and independent films. I also love all kinds of music, especially anything with a guitar solo. (Steve Vai, Joe Satriani and Eric Johnson are favorites) Enjoy going out to any place with good food, a nice atmosphere and/or good company.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Hope
2) The love and support of family and friends
3) Music (it's up there with air...which I assume I didn't need to mention, right?)
4) Laughter
5) chocolate
and last but not least...
6) Feeling of closeness to someone special (could live without, but prefer not to)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...more than a fair amount of things. I have a vast array of people and life events that are always on my mind. I am a mother, daughter, sister, nurse, friend..I have a lot on my mind...but have an ample place reserved for the special person in my life when he comes along.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes wondering what day it is! Also might be visiting and relaxing with friends or family, having a meal with family at home, spending a quiet evening at home writing or working on projects, or driving two and a half states away on a whim. In other words there is no typical friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyesight is no longer 20/20 (but my hindsight is!)
You should message me if
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You have made it this far without rolling your eyes, shaking your head or feeling tempted more than 2 times to press the next botton.
You would like to get to know a bit more about me and would like to tell me about yourself.
Have just the right amount of baggage to add to your charm, but not enough to require a uhaul to follow you around on a daily basis.
You are thoughtful, trustworthy and a fun person (by self evaluation) to be around.