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_Paul_____

40 Hoboken, NJ Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:30pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Education
University
Job
Technology
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Status
Single
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Russian (Okay), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've lived, worked, and studied on both coasts which has left me with a bicoastal orientation, but NYC is where I belong and I've been here for 15 years.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a software engineer in the financial industry. With a clear conscience. Without resorting to Ayn Rand.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Everything I do. But time is short, so I like to do the important things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Stanley Kubrick, Coen Brothers, Sidney Lumet, Terrence Malick, Darren Aronofsky, Pixar, Charlie Kaufman, Quentin Tarantino

Bob Dylan, Tom Waits, Marvin Gaye, Otis Redding, John Coltrane, Miles Davis, The Pixies, Radiohead, Wilco, Arcade Fire, Fleet Foxes, Queens of the Stone Age

Cormac McCarthy, Jack London, Kurt Vonnegut, Hermann Hesse, Tom Wolfe, Ralph Waldo Emerson

The Wire, Lost, Mad Men, Dexter, Twin Peaks, South Park, Sopranos, Deadwood, Breaking Bad, Arrested Development

And yes, food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Netflix
Cast iron skillet
French press
Conversations, cigarettes (scratch that, ecigs now), and street corners (Yes, that's one thing)
Brooks Brothers non-iron dress shirts
NPR
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The nature of consciousness, free will, and the perfect cup of coffee.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking forward to sleeping in on Saturday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am immune to the bystander effect.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have emotions, understand them, and can explain them. I'm listening.