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4real83

31 F Vancouver, WA

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 42–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:53pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
High school
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I went to a lot of effort to fill this out...I know I rambled on...shared more than I should have, but its honest. I hope you read it...
I'm going to apologize upfront to my future husband...I'm reading what you are about to read, and its sad and sometimes funny, but this is how I feel about relationships, this is me. I left out a lot of my good points and shared what I'm really most concerned about. Here it goes. ..

Above all I'm looking for someone who wants to share a life together, and dedicates their free time to being a couple. If you still need to hang out with the guys or do things without me...we're not a match. This is non-negotiable, if this doesn't appeal to you, if you're autonomy comes before a relationship, just don't message me.

If you are a flirt or check out other girls while you're in a relationship...please stay away from me! The WORST thing to me is someone with a wandering eye. Also if you have close female friends or an ex you stay in contact with...forget it, not interested. I want a one woman man, if you have time for someone else, I dont have time for you.

I'm looking for someone who has the means and stability, as well as the desire to be a family. That being said, I'm not having kids with someone who can't support me let alone children. This is important to me.

I enjoy being a couple, throwing dinner parties, bbq's, pictionary/game nights with family...going on adventures, traveling, trying out all the great restaurants we have out here, I love good food and drink and will go out of my way to find it.

Let's get some stuff out of the way that will make us incompatible....
-you have kids.
- you like to watch sports...ever. Actually, golf might not bother me, but you turn on football or sportscenter....I will stab you.
-you ski or snowboard....I really don't enjoy the snow...its cold. I'm not sitting at home while you enjoy your hobbies without me.
- you like to go camping...I like the outdoors but not the roughing it part....I need a soft bed and a hot shower in the morning, I hate campfires and bugs also. To me camping is a punishment. If you are at home in a hotel ...yay!
- if you have to travel alone on business, or would go on trips without me...sorry, I'm not okay with that.
-this one should have been number one.... you look at or own any kind of pornography, dirty magazines, etc. ...or troll the internet looking for visual stimulation...or are a patron of strip clubs, Hooters, bikini baristas or any other like establishment. If you have any interest in pornography or objectifying women, you will not be a part of my life.

Some of you think this is an unreasonable list, but I need to remind you I am not desperate, and would rather be single than be with a guy who goes out without me, looks at other women, or looks at porn. I am no longer wasting my life with people who are devoted to themselves and not a life centered around "us". I also hope I just scared the pants off every non-committal low-life lurking here for a good time....I'm not here for that. I want a lifetime of good times with my soulmate. I don't want to go out on a bunch of dates with random people...I'm just putting this out here in case YOU are on here.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being honest. I'm tired of reading your profiles about how perfect you are....Tell me whats wrong with you, what you do when no one is around, what I can expect from you at your worst and I might consider you a person worthy of love. You only need to know if you mesh with someone's true self, being fake is easy and will last as long as the honeymoon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Over analyzing??? I don't know!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Seriously?...I'm kind of hard to miss...but I'm not sure what you'd notice first...odd question to ask of yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love reading. I always have a book going. I love historical novels. I avoid cheesy romance novels and boring legal mysteries. Im always distressed over finishing a good one when i dont have another lined up because good books are hard to find.

I like music that I can dance or sing along with...except I'm really not into country music... I have no favorites really...I usually only listen to music while I'm driving. My radio is always tuned into the Top 40 type channels.

I don't watch a ton of tv. I don't like sleezy reality tv shows. I don't watch trash, and am not interested in being with someone who has no moral boundaries as to what they will watch...I want to be with someone who isn't in to shows or movies that have too much sexually objectifying or adult content....basically your typical teenage boy movies are out of the question...if you tell me the Hangover or American Pie (lots of you guys said these were your fav movies) are your kind of movie....you're not my guy!! I usually watch food network competitions, hardcore pawn, storage wars, iron chef, chopped...

I'm an amateur food critic so don't get me started on food....I will try anything once just for the experience. My devil foods are salami (dry, not that disgusting Genoa), prosciutto, avocados, and cheese...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I know it might not make a lot of sense but I would be very unhappy if these things suddenly ceased to exist...

Sushi....or pho'

Lobster/crab

Nail and hair salon/make-up

The sun

Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Food...and if I'm eating, I'm thinking, "how could this be made better?" I love good food, I am not satisfied with mediocre, not in food or in men. /:
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My biggest turn-off...if you compliment another woman's looks.....I'm suddenly not attracted to you anymore...go figure!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you answered all the questions I did in the question category...I'm more likely to respond...you went to the effort to reveal yourself ...I respect that. Plus it shows you actually cared to learn more about me before you decided to message me.