I'm going to apologize upfront to my future husband...I'm reading what you are about to read, and its sad and sometimes funny, but this is how I feel about relationships, this is me. I left out a lot of my good points and shared what I'm really most concerned about. Here it goes. ..
Above all I'm looking for someone who wants to share a life together, and dedicates their free time to being a couple. If you still need to hang out with the guys or do things without me...we're not a match. This is non-negotiable, if this doesn't appeal to you, if you're autonomy comes before a relationship, just don't message me.
If you are a flirt or check out other girls while you're in a relationship...please stay away from me! The WORST thing to me is someone with a wandering eye. Also if you have close female friends or an ex you stay in contact with...forget it, not interested. I want a one woman man, if you have time for someone else, I dont have time for you.
I'm looking for someone who has the means and stability, as well as the desire to be a family. That being said, I'm not having kids with someone who can't support me let alone children. This is important to me.
I enjoy being a couple, throwing dinner parties, bbq's, pictionary/game nights with family...going on adventures, traveling, trying out all the great restaurants we have out here, I love good food and drink and will go out of my way to find it.
Let's get some stuff out of the way that will make us incompatible....
-you have kids.
- you like to watch sports...ever. Actually, golf might not bother me, but you turn on football or sportscenter....I will stab you.
-you ski or snowboard....I really don't enjoy the snow...its cold. I'm not sitting at home while you enjoy your hobbies without me.
- you like to go camping...I like the outdoors but not the roughing it part....I need a soft bed and a hot shower in the morning, I hate campfires and bugs also. To me camping is a punishment. If you are at home in a hotel ...yay!
- if you have to travel alone on business, or would go on trips without me...sorry, I'm not okay with that.
-this one should have been number one.... you look at or own any kind of pornography, dirty magazines, etc. ...or troll the internet looking for visual stimulation...or are a patron of strip clubs, Hooters, bikini baristas or any other like establishment. If you have any interest in pornography or objectifying women, you will not be a part of my life.
Some of you think this is an unreasonable list, but I need to remind you I am not desperate, and would rather be single than be with a guy who goes out without me, looks at other women, or looks at porn. I am no longer wasting my life with people who are devoted to themselves and not a life centered around "us". I also hope I just scared the pants off every non-committal low-life lurking here for a good time....I'm not here for that. I want a lifetime of good times with my soulmate. I don't want to go out on a bunch of dates with random people...I'm just putting this out here in case YOU are on here.