I am a fun friend, therapist, track athlete, and coach. I have a kind voice, a gentle presence, am fun, smile often, am very masculine appearance, (I walk by mirrors and wonder who *that* guy is - from 2 to 20 I didn't identify or look like *that* dude, but here I am. I'm fairly passionate and dominant in bed, and am a feminist surrounded by well-educated, powerful women in my circle of family and friends, and I wouldn't have it any other way. (there's a few undergrad and masters degrees in women's studies in the fam.)
I still compete at a fairly high level in an obscure sport that I don't expect many people to know about or understand. It's the decathlon - 10 track events spread over 2 days, including the high hurdles and shot put (my best events) and the high jump (my worst.)
While I am fairly cisgender in appearance, I'm extraordinarily queer positive/friendly, and have actually had more queer/gay lovers than straight women - probably because I am really attracted to overt displays of sexuality, in any form, and those women have been able to step out of the paradigm and define what it is that they want for themselves - and when that (sometimes) loops back to a cis guy, well, I feel pretty chosen.
I am a fantastic kisser, very generous, love giving people pleasure - so take the opportunity to meet an awesome, hot, fun smart guy, and totally use him for your pleasure. ;)
I'm in an an open relationship as the "married/available suggests (I am told my profile shows up differently depending on the platform), I have total support from everyone n both sides of my fam - pretty amazing situation. :)