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37 M San Francisco, CA

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6′ 3″ (1.91m)
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Graduated from university
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My self-summary
I have fun in mostly everything I do, I value and celebrate human connection, my body's ability, my life, my family and friends.

I am a fun friend, therapist, track athlete, and coach. I have a kind voice, a gentle presence, am fun, smile often, am very masculine appearance, (I walk by mirrors and wonder who *that* guy is - from 2 to 20 I didn't identify or look like *that* dude, but here I am. I'm fairly passionate and dominant in bed, and am a feminist surrounded by well-educated, powerful women in my circle of family and friends, and I wouldn't have it any other way. (there's a few undergrad and masters degrees in women's studies in the fam.)
I still compete at a fairly high level in an obscure sport that I don't expect many people to know about or understand. It's the decathlon - 10 track events spread over 2 days, including the high hurdles and shot put (my best events) and the high jump (my worst.)
While I am fairly cisgender in appearance, I'm extraordinarily queer positive/friendly, and have actually had more queer/gay lovers than straight women - probably because I am really attracted to overt displays of sexuality, in any form, and those women have been able to step out of the paradigm and define what it is that they want for themselves - and when that (sometimes) loops back to a cis guy, well, I feel pretty chosen.

I am a fantastic kisser, very generous, love giving people pleasure - so take the opportunity to meet an awesome, hot, fun smart guy, and totally use him for your pleasure. ;)
I'm in an an open relationship as the "married/available suggests (I am told my profile shows up differently depending on the platform), I have total support from everyone n both sides of my fam - pretty amazing situation. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Sex and Relationship Therapy (as my profession), Track and field, , Screenwriting (I've optioned an few scripts and had a feature made - albeit under very independent means) Spending as much time as possible with Friends and Family, personal and professional development (usually simultaneously) , and enjoying a great , blessed life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Life of Pi
Girl with the Dragon Tattoo
Roadside Picnic
Hard Boiled Wonderland and the End of the World

Films: (really difficult to make a short list. But these are probly top-20-ish, not in any order)
The Royal Tenenbaums
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (bad casting, greatest screenplay maybe ever.)
Moonrise Kingdom
Raising Arizona
American Beauty
The Professional
The Empire Strikes Back
Once Upon a Time in the West
Big Lebowski
Raiders of the Lost Ark
Shawshank Redemption
North by Northwest
Pulp Fiction
Seven Samurai
The Matrix
Honorable mention: apocalypse now and blues brothers
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex