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43 Danville, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 23
Asian, White
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids

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My self-summary
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Much of what I do daily involves problem solving for others- and that can be gratifying work. Between, the practice of problem solving,and my children - I sometimes feel like a perpetual motion machine. So be it; I'm trying to stay present during every minute of it all. I opened a practice of my own recently, with the intention of opening up space in my life for another person and engaging in more self-care.

On the subject of personality, I trend towards being accepting, creative, optimistic, and supportive. 1w9, or vice versa; IN(t/f)(p/j). The 'one' side of me is principled and always seeking to improve. Obviously, that's all a bit of an oversimplification - I find the word "spiritual" especially helpful as a descriptor.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm staying in the Now, developing awareness, and trusting in intuition and intention.
I’m really good at
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Setting my state of mind and focus.
Following my heart and intuition.
Big picture concepts and strategies.
Understanding others.
Thinking outside the lines.
Working in the grey areas.
Accepting what is.
Researching my interests.
Appreciating beauty.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm calm? That I have a youthful air about me? Others will often comment on my height; which I find puzzling as I'm just 6 ft.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Power of Now; Stillness Speaks (Eckhart Tolle); Road Less Traveled (Peck); The Three Marriages (David Whyte); long ago (college) I was impacted by The Power Within (Anthony Robbins) and even more obscure, The Man Who Never Missed (Perry).

Music: Walking in Memphis (Marc Cohn); When the leaves come falling down (Van Morrison). Tha Mo Ghaol Air... (Julie Fowlis). Whenever I Say Your Name (Sting feat. Jo Lawry).

Movies: Life of Pi; The Way (Martin Sheen); Kiki's Delivery Service.

I don't watch TV except for cartoons with my kids - or old episodes of Magnum PI (I grew up in Hawaii). Used to pick up the Daily Show or Colbert on the internet, but haven't since last Jan.

I used to watch all the major tennis tournaments, but now will only watch parts of a big match after the fact on Youtube- if at all. I love to play, but seldom find time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
There are lots of people whom I care deeply about; however, I'm not so attached to 'things' in this world that I couldn't personally do without most anything other than food & shelter. My edge and my attachments typically relate to my kids.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sorting out problems and conflicts (usually either legal or kid based)
How to communicate complex thoughts clearly.
Whether I'm in flow and present.
My kids.
My kanban list of projects, to dos, and topics of interest.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With my children. After that I might be working out late at night, grocery shopping or doing some research/planning on the computer.
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