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39 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:34pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Diversity is a great word. I'm a person made up of a vast range of life experiences. You should be too. The right partner will be the one looking to widening that range.

If I'm not traveling you can find me at beaches, ball parks, farmers markets, bookstores, wineries, theaters or exploring the nooks and crannies of a new neighborhood. I'm open minded and connect with most with people who are the same, even if we have opposite points of view.

I have an adventurous and independent spirit and I'm always hoping to learn and create more memories from the next journey whether on a trip or in my backyard. Maybe that's why I have an interest in globes and vintage maps? I like to remember where I've been.

Is it possible to be an optimist and a realist? If so I am. I'm a teaser, if you can't take it we aren't a match. If you are having a pity party for one everyday, you get no love from me. Humor initiates endorphin's... I'm a sucker for silliness and sarcasm.

I hate to say I'm a foodie, the word is so overused. Really who isn't a foodie in the Bay Area? But cooking and exploring the world through a culinary lens really has enriched my life. Cooking is my artistic outlet and something I never tire of doing or learning. Hopefully you have an adventurous palate and can be a taste tester for my cooking experiments. If you don't have one yet, I'm willing to be the one to introduce you.

I'm looking for someone who is intelligent, thoughtful, funny, is committed to being healthy, driven, affectionate, has integrity and a strong sense of self, loves to travel or is open to start, and has a little special edge and individuality about them. Someone who treats everyone respectfully. Being rude for no reason is a deal breaker for me.

And someone who can hang out anywhere and have fun. The airport on an overnight unplanned layover, the boring corporate dinner, the backyard BBQ with screaming kids, funky festivals, flea markets and garage sales, hiking the east bay hills, the obligatory awkward distant family dinner, random foreign film festivals with sometimes wonderful but horribly depressing movies, learning to forage in Golden Gate Park, or last minute travel to as close or as far as the journey takes us.
What I’m doing with my life
A career in finance pays the bills. But the goal is to have my side jobs in food, wine and travel take over a new career path, hopefully soon!
I’m really good at
Reading people.
Cooking my ass off.
Remaining loyal.
Trip planning.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes.
My sometimes maybe too loud of a laugh.
My self proclaimed witty sense of humor.
My confidence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Amelie, Usual Suspects, Motorcycle Diaries, City of God, Part's Unknown, Top Chef, THE WIRE (best show ever made in my time), Boardwalk Empire, The Mind of a Chef, Bossa Nova, old school soul, nostalgic old rock from my parents era, 90's hip hop, and pretty much every type of food one can imagine...but I die for a meal of champagne and crab or oysters.
The six things I could never do without
Crab and Bubbly
My sis
The sound of laughter
My sense of smell or taste
Doggie besos
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Getting my own business off the ground.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hosting a dinner party, happy hour with co-workers, walking the lake or Oakland Hills, on my way out of town, or at home enjoying my own company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Us Scorpios are a mysterious bunch. When the right person comes along there will be plenty of sordid stories to share.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You are ready for life's best adventure.