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5thColumn

57 / M / Straight / Single

Seattle, Washington

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:54pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and very serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a kind, thoughtful, funny, curious guy. I like long, tangential conversations about life, art, experiences and ideas. Feeding both sides of my brain is an imperative I satisfy with music and mechanics, the abstract and the tactile.

I enjoy art of all kinds and the conversations it generates. I'm a foodie from A to Z and am always up for a new spot, an old favorite or a recipe/experiment at home. I like to stay abreast of world and local politics and events.

Travel; local, domestic and foreign is something I love but don't ever seem to do enough of.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a self-employed entrepreneur which means I'm always at work and on vacation simultaneously; a condition which suits me. I have all the time in the world to focus on what's important to me.
I’m really good at
Appreciating how good I have it.

Being a friend.

Playing music.

Restoring vintage motorcycles.

Backing a trailer for some reason.

I'm a good listener, 'pretty good talker.

Appreciating people, places and things for what they are.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm friendly and pay attention to what they are saying, (as opposed to what I'm going to say next; 'know what I mean?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A short list:

Vonnegut, Wim Wenders, MadMen, the song I'm currently playing and Thai...no wait, Mexican! Uh, Italian? Chinese?

(All answers subject to change without notice.)
The six things I could never do without
The Golden Ratio; open, heartfelt communication; the possibility of love; growth and change; music; motorcycles.

(This list reflects just how good life is; everything listed is a luxury!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All the great people I've been blessed to know and where they might be now.

My next gig.

Why something that's not working isn't working and what I need to do to get it working again.
On a typical Friday night I am
Early: Working out while listening to KUOW.

The Shank of the Evening: Playing a show, checking out a show, meeting friends for drinks and a gnosh.

Late: Grabbing a nightcap and/or a bite at a late happy hour spot.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Can be pried out of me face to face.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–64
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're the kind of woman who makes other men wonder what you see in me and makes other women wish they'd seen it first.