I want interesting people around me. I want meaningful, unpretentious connection and activity, and somebody who can withstand the impact of my desire to contribute something great to the world.
Important: chemistry and interest in music and art.
She is daring, beautiful-in-her-own-way, conscious, intelligent, and grounded...we enjoy high-grade intimacy, premium laughter, vintage honesty and acquired self-awareness. Extra points for scars or vision.
I was a competitive swimmer long ago, but I don't follow any sports teams or own a jersey with a number on it. I'm NBA-player height but have never watched a basketball game from start to finish in my entire life, and I don't play golf. I do, however, exercise and enjoy adventure and competition (the real variety). I clean up after myself and don't have any friends I'd call "the boys". I would much rather stare at a painting or meditate.
I adore thorough verbal communication almost as much as physical intimacy (one depends upon the other). TRUST is the supercalifragilisticexpialidocious magic word.
We must each control our own demons, as individuals. I am a grossly accepting, highly selective free spirit, and so should you be. If you have special rules, an agenda, I'm not the right guy for you. The only special rule you should have is to not be mistreated or to not mistreat anybody.
I've abandoned whatever interest I once had in mean, cruel, judgmental, or selfish girls who merely offer a little temporary excitement and glamour (I enjoy my occasional flourishes of glamour and excitement). Arthur Schopenhauer's quote comes to mind: "There is no more mistaken path to happiness than worldliness, revelry, high life."
If you're OK with who you are and don't have an anti-male bias, racist viewpoint, or lingering anger from your past, we'll get along fine. Angry/repeat drunks are strictly forbidden. That is not to say you are a bad person if so, but if so you've gotta work that shit out elsewhere.
A petite woman on this site scolded me for reaching out to her. That was odd, I thought. But I am super tall, so you should be aware that everywhere I go, I make an entrance.
Everybody, including myself, armors their profile with photos and statements that show their worldliness, power, accomplishments, fame, charm, beauty and attractiveness - even humility - or their best shot at it. Silly rabbits! All anybody really wants is to be loved and love, to be as playful and unburdened with their lover as they were when they were a child at play. The only question is whether two people are right for each other.
I am on a journey and love my freedom and individuality; I will resist exchanging this journey for something of less value.
With me you'll experience a balanced understanding of the roles of food and glamour, world-traveled experience with strong future prospects, dizzying intellectual engagement that is restrained and humble, safety, simplicity, amusement, warmth, practiced caring, studied maturity, some crazy true-life stories, and a bunch more.
CONS: I suck at small math and have difficulty remembering names. I am an empathy and connection junkie...but on the positive side, I've learned how to manage that shiz.
Your turn. Am I the right guy for you?