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46 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 20
White, Other
6′ 10″ (2.08m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I gave this some thought.

I want interesting people around me. I want meaningful, unpretentious connection and activity, and somebody who can withstand the impact of my desire to contribute something great to the world.

Important: chemistry and interest in music and art.

She is a daring, beautiful-in-her-own-way, conscious, intelligent, grounded semi-hedonist in a little black dress...we enjoy high-grade intimacy, premium laughter, vintage honesty and acquired self-awareness. Extra points for scars or vision.

Although I was a competitive swimmer long ago, I don't follow any sports or own a jersey with a number on it, I clean up after myself and don't have any friends I'd call "the boys". I'm NBA-player height but have never watched a basketball game from start to finish in my entire life, and I don't play golf. I do, however, exercise and enjoy adventure and competition (the real variety).

A temporary relationship or open relationship is acceptable (until such time that it's not); she follows that path confidently without reckless promiscuity or deception.

I adore thorough verbal communication almost as much as physical intimacy (one depends upon the other). TRUST is the magic word.

I am open to a monogamous situation provided I'm not the only one being monogamous. Let's face it -- you are inundated daily with opportunity after opportunity, while men must cultivate opportunity. I can commit to a fair promise, and ready to work through healthy, ordinary problems, but individually we must each control our own demons. I control mine.

If you have special rules, an agenda, and take things personally, I'm not the right guy for you. I am a grossly accepting, highly selective free spirit, and so should you be.

I've abandoned whatever interest I once had in mean, cruel, judgmental, or selfish girls who merely offer a little temporary excitement and glamour (I enjoy my occasional flourishes of glamour and excitement). An apt quote comes to mind: "There is no more mistaken path to happiness than worldliness, revelry, high life." - Arthur Schopenhauer

If you lie down with dogs, stay there. I no longer do rescues and don't expect to be rescued. If you're OK with who you are and don't have an anti-male bias, racist viewpoint, or lingering anger from your past, we'll get along fine. Angry/repeat drunks are strictly forbidden.

Everybody, including myself, armors their profile with photos and statements that show their worldliness, power, accomplishments, fame, charm, beauty and attractiveness - even humility - or their best shot at it. Silly rabbits! All anybody really wants is to be loved and love, to be as playful and unburdened with their lover as they were when they were a child at play. The only question is whether two people are right for each other, but so often people make the quick, easy, wrong choice. Not everybody is ready to be happy.

Zero arrests - my record is clean. I appreciate the distinctions and arguments in favor of legalizing certain controlled substances, but drugs are not a part of my life. My preferred mind-benders are limited to deep coma-inducing kisses, occasional alcohol, persistent music and exercise.

I am on a journey and love my freedom and individuality; I will resist exchanging this journey for something of less value.

Live your life, woman, and get what you came here for! Although I respect the immediacy with which some women seek marriage and children, for this moment I'm offering neither unless you're the extremely, extremely rare combination of independent wealth without traditional gender-role expectations. That means: if you're in a hurry to have kids, I'm not the right guy. Someday...sure. My great-grandfather had a kid at 76, dirty old bugger he was. [ps: marriage can ruin a relationship but love is forever.]

With me you'll get a balanced understanding of the roles of food and glamour, world-traveled experience with strong future prospects, dizzying intellectual engagement that is restrained and humble, safety, simplicity, amusement, warmth, practiced caring, studied maturity, some crazy true-life stories, and a bunch more.

CONS: I'm old. I suck at small math and have difficulty remembering names. I am an empathy junkie.

Your turn. Am I the right guy for you?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Lots of stuff and enjoying myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
living simply while pursuing bigger plans. Sensing BS.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My fragile, diminutive physical stature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love Parks & Rec, 30 Rock and good science fiction. Autobiographies and biographies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Only six? 1. materialism 2. attachment 3. greed ... oh, actually I can do without everything. I do, however, like to have regular music experiences that excite me, day trips out of Brooklyn, a few great meals per week, and that feeling when I've helped a client or made some stranger's kid smile.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
a lobster & pasta dish I recently ate; how does Jay Z move mountains?; executive salary + justice for victims of investment bankers who screwed us in 2008. The world is insane right now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing something suggested in the above epic profile.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I often spend all my lunch money on magic beans.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1. you have thoroughly read all of the above; and 2. you are brave and want to meet me to see how it feels. On-line chemistry is mostly misleading and can result in a false positive that withers in-person. Let's avoid prolonged emailing before meeting in person for a no-expectations drink/coffee.