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69lovelorn

25 M Kuching, Malaysia

My Details

Last Online
Mar 19
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), Malay (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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i'm straight-acting & closeted. where i'm from, society highly frown upon people who are different from the stereotype *normal*. most of the people i know of either dislike, refused to associate with people who are *out*. an observer in life who fades to the background doing the supportive role, someone who wears his heart on the sleeve and have it smashed to smithereens many times in the dark. hopeless romantic who enjoy the little things in life. empathic in nature with a listening ear. would help another soul in trouble to forget my own. listen to my favourite tunes on my iPod while baking away. a pluviophile; also love the scent of freshly cut grass and of petrichor :) somewhat quixotic. a victim of hyperthyroidism :( recently discovered that i'm an INFP.

“Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.” — Leonardo da Vinci

would love to experience many things in life that i've missed the chance or haven't been able to. for example, i've never build a sandcastle before, never been kiss (i hope that my first kiss would be unforgettable as if i've been saving it for someone special) nor have the privilege of knowing my grandparents's lives or that they have any family recipes/traditions that i can learn from. i would love to experience the small things in life that often; most people take for granted, which normally meant a lot to me; even though sometimes it may seems silly to others.

“The little things are infinitely the most important. “
— Arthur Conan Doyle

it takes a fair amount of time for me to warm up to someone new, but when i'm comfortable with someone there's no telling what degree of friendliness i may display. so if you're someone who patient and genuinely looking for a relationship. write me up.

“I have just three things to teach: simplicity, patience, compassion. These three are your greatest treasures.” — Lao Tzu
What I’m doing with my life
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aside from searching for a love, seeking true friends whom i can share my life with and laugh wholeheartedly without prejudice, forming strong, healthy relationships that are real and not based on temporary causes, hidden agendas or otherwise.

figuring out the next step in my life, just as art imitates life and vice-versa, a debate that has been on-going for a long time. spending time wondering how we may be insignificant in this world, but like a water droplet returning to the pool of water, it resonate and creates waves that impact. we can choose to either be a droplet or a body of stagnant water.

a song that i can relate to would be Half-Life by Duncan Sheik and Listen by Beyoncé Knowles or Charice's version. while i hope i would not need to present Blind by Lifehouse to a love one and Every Little Thing by Dishwalla is something i hope that i wouldn't need hear it from someone from my past. still seeking to begin something real with Bring Me The Night by Sam Tsui ft Kina Grannis or The Other Side by Max Schneider + Keke Palmer ft Jason Derulo, while still awaiting a special person who will bring the tunes like If You're Not The One by Daniel Bedingfield, You Took My Heart Away by MLTR, Hero by Enrique Iglesias and Some Kind Of Beautiful by Tyler Ward ft Lindsey Stirling into my life.

to any precious dear friend(s) i present to you this song:
Dear My Friend -まだ見ぬ未来へ by ELISA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2KyCcxw4s8

something to laugh or you may try to resist to laugh XD
first video, try not to laugh sound imitations (i laugh because of the other person's laughter though)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WgYKoeoJVmk

non-stop laughter compilation :P
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sap2hfA-pHg

GloZell's Ghetto Wrecking Ball Miley Cyrus
(fair warning if you are someone easily offended by parodies, do not watch, but i gotta say, this one cracked me up so hard i had to pause and breath)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KGiawAEt3bc
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
singing, baking, photography (not at myself), listening when someone needs an ear or shoulder
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i do not know what people notice, but someone once told me that i'm gentle in nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: more of a movie person. but once in a while a thriller/suspense/horror genre, fiction, the Good Book. have been thinking of getting romance genre but i always resisted the impulse whenever i walk by that aisle.

movies: mostly comedy/romance/musical (Les Miserables, Joyful Noise, Rags, The Sound of Music, White Chicks, Sister Act, The Ugly Truth, Bridesmaids, Bride Wars, 27 Dresses, The Devil Wears Prada, Armageddon, Monte Carlo, Never Been Kissed, Princess Diaries, A Walk to Remember, The Notebook, The Vow, P.S. I Love You, Kung Fu Panda, Shrek, Wall-E). once in awhile thriller/suspense/action/adventure (Fast & Furious, The Mummy Trilogy, 21, Bourne Trilogy, HP, Charlie's Angels, Gladiator, Indiana Jones, Pirates of the Caribbean, Rush Hour Trilogy, Transformers)

shows: animes! (Kimi no Todoke, Itazura na Kiss, Toradora!, Gosick, Zero no Tsukaima, 07-Ghost, Bleach, Trinity Blood, Gintama, Katekyo Hitman Reborn!, Saiunkoku Monogatari, Ouran High School Host Club, Kuroko no Basuke, Free! - Iwatobi Swim Club, Avatar the Last Airbender + The Legend of Korra, and of course Sekaiichi Hatsukoi, Junjou Romantic) just to name a few.
series like (Supernatural, True Blood, Charmed, Dark Angel, Mr Bean, Fantaghiro: The Cave of The Golden Rose, Noah's Arc, Queer As Folk) :been meaning to watch Game of Thrones, American Horror Story that seem to be highly rated, but have yet to begin:

music: a wide variety: Emeli Sande, Cherish, Corrine Bailey Rae, Lil Eddie, Maroon 5, Sean Paul, Tyler Ward, Boyce Avenue, Utada Hikaru, Lana Del Rey, Stacie Orrico, Josh Groban, Steadman, Charice, Priscilla Ahn, Angela Aki, Kelly Clarkson, Coldplay, MLTR, Loreena McKenitt, Dido, Celine Dion, Beyoncé Knowles, Whitney Houston, Christina Aguilera, Nicole Scherzinger, Shakira, Enrique Iglesias, Smash Mouth, Pink, Incubus, Linkin Park, Avicii, Timbaland, Flo Rida, Jason Derulo, Craig David, Sara Bareilles, Ellie Goulding, The Corrs, Ladysmith Black Mambazo, Yiruma, Chopin, Vivaldi, Lindsey Stirling, Jona Selle, Kina Grannis, Zack Knight, Hope Murphy, Syesha Mercado, Brooke Fraser, Fujita Maiko, KOKIA, Chris August, Beckah Shae, Skillet, Yuna Ito, a touch of oldies from late 60s, 70s & 80s, also classical artists from Baroque, Classical, Romantic era till now.

i should say that i have a strong attraction towards vocals and stringed instruments; such as guitar, violin, cello, viola, erhu, pipa, guzheng, koto also flute, and piano. in the voice/hands of a prodigy, can they draw out its full potential and evoke deep & powerful emotions when they solo or form in groups.

food: french, italian, japanese, chocolates, cold desserts
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
God
family
true friends
music
scrumptious food
soul mate (when i find him) :3
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my future, good food, baking/creating food, my significant soulmate
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
home baking, or surfing for recipes. searching music/movies/animes etc to curl up to. occasionally to hang out
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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afraid of falling head over heels over someone and will likely be bashful to tsundere towards the one i like

“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.”
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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should have similar interests or would like to be friends. after all, every relationship starts with friendship. someone who genuinely seek to have a relationship or is searching for their soul mate.

“It is not the length of life, but the depth.”
― Ralph Waldo Emerson

preferably someone who's masculine and mature (not necessary age), one that possess the qualities of a chivalrous man. taller than my height or same height & love cuddling! if you have a deep voice, that's another bonus! hahaha does it sound like a classical form of knight in shining armour? :3 someone who hate to see another in pain, and would do anything to protect/ease their suffering. a person who would tease you, try his best to make you laugh even if it makes him looks silly and would not let you go when you are down. :)

“It takes courage to love, but pain through love is the purifying fire which those who love generously know. We all know people who are so much afraid of pain that they shut themselves up like clams in a shell and, giving out nothing, receive nothing and therefore shrink until life is a mere living death.”
― Eleanor Roosevelt