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33 M Dortmund, Germany

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Last Online
Mar 23, 2006
5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
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Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Czech (Okay)

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My self-summary
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You are a stranger, right? Thus it takes time for me to become comfortable with you to a degree where I would discuss my "self" with you.

If you met me out in the street, on campus or sitting on the train you would most likely see me smiling quietly. You might give me looks but probably you would get a shy glance out of the corner of my eyes, at most.

I am belated, apprehensive, and bemused
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well, rigth now I'm trying to find someone to exchange e-mails with. It has turned out to be the case, that it seems to help me emotionally to be able to communicate with humans who are at least somewhat alike.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
In the past I have been able to reach states of deep peace and harmony through breath-attentiveness-meditation, similar to anapanasati meditation. Since then some difficulties have arisen, even though it still is possible to observe feelings, thoughts etc. with some degree of detachment. (anapanasati, meditation, meditate)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Humanoid. ^_-
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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(a) Books:

I will not call them my favorites, but rather "books, that have had an impact on my life:"

1. *Sophie's World* by /Jostein Gaarder/: This book has helped me to see that humans can come to realizations of 'truth' by using their mind and reason. The philosophies of Locke, Berkely, and Hume regarding the concept of 'mind' described therein have helped me to define what I regard as the 'Perfect One' or 'Perfection'. (~16)

2. *The World's Religions* by /Huston Smith/: ...

3. *The Dark is Rising* (and the other books of the series) by /Susan Cooper/: ...

4. *Geheimsache U.F.O.* by /Michael Hesemann/: ...

5. *The Tao Te Ching* as translated by /S. Mitchell/.

6. *Dune* and the other books of the Dune-Cycle by /Frank Herbert/.

Books by some certain other author.

(b) Movies (etc.)

The Day the Earth Stood Still.


(c) Music

I'm not well-versed in music, any kind of music. You probably could find at least some harmony within anything. I have not heard the 'perfect' song or composition yet, though some may come closer than others.

(d) Foods

There is that political party in Northern Ireland whose name supposedly translates to "we ourselves." This should be an indicator as to what combinations of different kinds of food I prefer, but might also refer to the social circumstances, depending on the individuals.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The SIX things I'd gladly do without: Questions such as the one above, ditto, ditto, ditto, ditto, ditto.

Apart from that, I probably should give a reason: That question indicates the preconception of the presence of unhealthy egotism.

I would not mind spending the rest of my life with meditation within a Buddhist monastery or solitary confinement, but I do not accept the idea, that the direct struggle for attaining nirvana (for 'oneself' and for all beings) is life's sole purpose, though one might be tempted to think so, after having experienced very positive states of mind through meditation. While speaking of "life's purpose" I do not mean my own life only, but all of existence.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I believe that thoughts lack something, if they are without intuition and feeling and without being the subject of objective observation. I believe that humans are capable of fruitful contemplation only after having learned meditation of pure attentivness at least to some degree.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Would you like to participate in group-meditation?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Have you ever had detailed thoughts regarding your suicide? Why?

What are your thougths on the topics of death and dying?

(suicide, death)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
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You would like to criticize, if you would like to share your own experiences or opinions etc., if you would like to ask some question, and if it is ok for you to take part in some kind of a discourse.