Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I raised a son by myself he is 20 going to MSU and will be leaving
for good soon so it is time to start looking for the right person
to spend the rest of my life with. I never have been a player maybe
that hasn't helped my chances of finding the right person but it
just isn't in my nature. Doing nothing is no longer an option so
I'll give this a shot I really have nothing to lose by trying. I
like out-going spirited women and I have to find them attractive. I
am very picky and would rather not waste time if I think we don't
match. I have always planned to live to 100 so you'll have to put
up with me for a very long time. And please no smokers.
I grew up in household where the fine arts and culture were the
norm. So classical music, opera and ballet are something I
appreciate. I have been a life long learner, and I enjoy reading
books, going to museums and taking on new challenges. What I don't
do is watch sports on television and drink beer. I have renewed my
love for guitar recently and while I don't have a natural talent I
am making progress and enjoying it.
Here is what eHarmony said about me. I can't say it as well and it
does strike me as correct.
"you are equally at home with ideas and beliefs that you have held
for a long time and with new ways of thinking and believing that
grow out of your intellectual curiosity"
"You are empathetic and compassionate, but you also believe that
it's best if people solve their own problems and learn to take care
of themselves, if they are able."
"you're organized, but casual; solid, but compliant; and
dependable, but informal. At home and at work, people know they can
rely on you. You take great satisfaction in knowing that people
think of you as disciplined and responsible, but you also know that
you have something of a free spirit in you,"
"You are generally a modest and private person. You are thoughtful
and careful before making decisions and offering opinions. You most
likely have a number of good friends and you greatly enjoy spending
time with them."
"You've got your life in a good place, your dominant mood is
upbeat, and unless life has been particularly trying for you, you
greatly enjoy the richness and intensity of life that being so open
with your emotions brings you."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Preparing to merge with the cosmic consciousness or unconsciousness
whichever turns out to be true. Not soon I hope but one day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solving mechanical problems. I think I inherited that from my
father a holocaust survivor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite current movies are Lord of the Rings, Star Wars and
Harry Potter. Movies that deal with good and evil and the personal
struggles in a fantastic way. These of course are just recent takes
on the Mythology of old and the ethics of the human species. I like
to know more than what's on the surface of these movies so I have
read the books as well.
I have read a thousand books so it is a bit hard to name a
favorite. I can say that Ayn Rand and Allan Watts are among the
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I think I can adapt to any situation. So that leaves air, water,
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I find one of the things that matters to me and I think makes a
difference in whether two people can get along is faith. I don't
believe in God. I do believe in good. Not everything is relative,
there is good and evil in the world, and it doesn't take any hocus
pocus to know it and know it matters. I spent a significant time
searching and am pretty happy with where I am now.
If you believe if god I probably won't be interested and I won't
write you or return your message. Some people seem to think
religion is like race and that if you are born a catholic for
example you identify yourself that way. If you don't believe you
are not a catholic. I am not interested in theists, that is anyone
who believes in god. If you do don't be disappointed if I don't
respond to your message.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It's private so I am not going to admit anything. Really a stupid
question. If I admit it it isn't private.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can tell me about yourself. You think about more than having
someone make you laugh. And no I am not bitter just bored with
superficial shallow empty conversation.
Who are you looking for?
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